Trouble finding "the" girl's name

[name]Hi[/name], I’ve never posted here before, but thought you ladies might be able to help me. We are going to start ttc later in the year and I would like to have a name picked out early on like I did for my son, [name]Elliott[/name] [name]James[/name], but my husband and I are having trouble coming up with a girl’s name we love. We have a boy name picked out, [name]Ian[/name] [name]Charles[/name], and would like a girl’s name that has the same feel.

Here is our list of girl’s names:

[name]Clara[/name] [name]Jane[/name]
[name]Iris[/name] [name]Penelope[/name]
[name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Meadow[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name]

Our last name is a popular three syllable boys name that ends in -er, so I would like to avoid names ending with that sound. I feel like I’ve looked at every name there is and I just can’t find “the one.”

I guess I’m just looking for opinions on our list and suggestions. [name]TIA[/name]!

I love your list! [name]Clara[/name], [name]Iris[/name], [name]Gwendolen[/name], [name]Genevieve[/name], and [name]Ivy[/name] are all fabulous and go so well with [name]Elliott[/name] and [name]Ian[/name]. I think [name]Clara[/name] is probably my favorite, but I also love [name]Gwendolen[/name] and [name]Genevieve[/name].

What about:

[name]Arabella[/name]
[name]Ariana[/name]
[name]Eliza[/name]
[name]Lenora[/name]
[name]Tabitha[/name]
[name]Camille[/name]
[name]Josephine[/name]
[name]Lilibet[/name]
[name]Ophelia[/name]
[name]Zara[/name]
[name]Clementine[/name]
[name]Zinnia[/name]
[name]Julia[/name]/[name]Juliet[/name]
[name]Magda[/name]/[name]Magdalena[/name]/[name]Magnolia[/name]
[name]Grace[/name]
[name]Elora[/name]
[name]Vivienne[/name]
[name]Felicity[/name]
[name]Flora[/name]

Good luck!

All of your names are lovely but you might want to consider taking [name]Ivy[/name] and [name]Iris[/name] off of your list if you plan to have a third child and you are set on [name]Ian[/name] for a boy. [name]Ian[/name] and [name]Ivy[/name] or [name]Ian[/name] and [name]Iris[/name] are so close that they seem a bit too matchy. I particularly like [name]Genevieve[/name]. It seems unique and special.

[name]Elliott[/name] [name]James[/name] is our boys name too! what about Gwenavere [name]Meadow[/name].

Thanks for the input! I actually haven’t thought of the [name]Ivy[/name]/[name]Iris[/name]/[name]Ian[/name] thing. I’m pretty sure we’ll be stopping at two, but you never know. [name]Guinevere[/name] is a name that I like and my husband loves, but I’m just not sure I can get passed the connotation I think it still has.

@ash, I really like a lot of the names on that list, especially [name]Josephine[/name] and [name]Eliza[/name].

I also think [name]Ivy[/name]/[name]Iris[/name]/[name]Ian[/name] is too similar, and the same thing with [name]Eliza[/name]/[name]Elliott[/name]. From the rest I love [name]Clara[/name] and [name]Genevieve[/name].
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Jane[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Penelope[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Meadow[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Gwendolen[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Genevieve[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Josephine[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] [name]Guinevere[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Eliza[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Ivy[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Iris[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Clara[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Esme[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Meadow[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Flora[/name]

Your boy names of [name]Elliott[/name] [name]James[/name] and [name]Ian[/name] [name]Charles[/name] are classic, strong-yet-sensitive, English type names to me. So for a girl name I’d try to keep the same theme, and maybe even match the syllables with those (two or three-syllable first name and one-syllable middle name).

I like [name]Clara[/name] [name]Jane[/name] the best of your list. It’s great.

I’d also add for consideration on first names:

[name]Alice[/name]
[name]Amelie[/name]
[name]Catherine[/name]
[name]Leah[/name]

For middle names:

[name]Ann[/name] / [name]Anne[/name]
[name]Elle[/name]
[name]May[/name]
[name]Rose[/name]

I was going to get on the [name]Clara[/name] train. Goes just right with your other names :slight_smile: