Thanks, everybody!
We do like traditional names and one “rule” is that it needs to not be too trendy, obscure, or trying too hard - if that makes sense.
I love all the suggestions! A lot we’ve talked about already and sort of ruled out for one reason or another. Some are relatives names, some one or both of us just don’t care for. My husband has a large family with literally dozens of cousins, so many, many names are off the table for us, unfortunately.
It makes me wonder if perhaps we’re having a girl since we can’t decide on a boy name at all
Or maybe this means we are absolutely having a boy and we better get on it 
[name]Julian[/name] keeps coming up. We both like it a lot.
[name]Julian[/name] [name]Nicholas[/name]
[name]Julian[/name] [name]Christian[/name]
[name]Julian[/name] [name]Thomas[/name]
I also like [name]Nolan[/name] a lot (mentioned above), but when we’ve tossed it around hubby isn’t in love with it. I think [name]Nolan[/name] plays well with a lot of our other choices
[name]Nolan[/name] [name]Thomas[/name]
[name]Nolan[/name] [name]Christian[/name]
I should also mention that one of our nephews is named a somewhat obscure Presidential surname as a first name. So, we’re trying to avoid going with a Presidential surname as first name as well. Although, we both do like [name]Truman[/name], [name]Grant[/name] (although it’s sliding for us), [name]Franklin[/name]…
It’s tough!
Our girl name is going to be [name]Grace[/name], middle is still in discussion. We are 100% sure about that. [name]Both[/name] loved it immediately and haven’t reconsidered at all.
[name]Grace[/name] [name]Victoria[/name]
[name]Grace[/name] [name]Elise[/name]
[name]Grace[/name] [name]Maria[/name]
[name]Grace[/name] [name]Victoria[/name] [name]Maria[/name]
We’re also not finding out the gender, so our discussions can go one a long time
This is good and bad, ha ha!