I’m Jewish and I would feel weird seeing/hearing about a girl named [name_m]Tuvia[/name_m]. I mean it’s not really that significant but it just doesn’t feel right, especially since it’s the traditional Hebrew form ([name_m]Tobiah[/name_m] would also feel weird on a girl but less… icky? awkward? to me personally). This also might be because I just added Tuviyah to my boys list 
. I think people that care about you and your family would easily adjust to your preferred pronunciation, and anyone who doesn’t after being corrected a few times clearly doesn’t respect you and your daughter as a person. Otherwise, I like the suggestion of [name_f]Tova[/name_f]!