Wow… what a huge response! Thank you so much to every single one of you for your input, we greatly appreciate it! I will try to answer everyone’s questions.
For those of you that had concerns about letting the family know… most of the people in my family don’t care for her name, and when we said we were thinking of changing it - well their ears perked up pretty high. The only ones I’d be concerned about are my other children.
I do realize how common [name]Caitlin[/name] is. That is one reason why we picked [name]Sariah[/name] over some others we had mutually agreed on ([name]Julianna[/name], [name]Cadence[/name], [name]Ella[/name]). However, if he would have said yes to [name]Caitlin[/name], I wouldn’t have even looked for another name. We originally wanted an unusual name since our son is [name]Jacob[/name], and then we have [name]Alanna[/name] - which isn’t as common as [name]Jacob[/name]. We loved not hearing [name]Alanna[/name] everywhere. But I had this feeling about [name]Caitlin[/name] that surpassed the popularity of the name.
[name]Lauren[/name], [name]Sariah[/name] has started to fit her, but not nearly as much as [name]Caitlin[/name] would. She just looks like a [name]Caitlin[/name], and I’ve said that from the beginning (I don’t know if you remember that).
Katielea, yes I am angry with him for bringing this up now! I had struggled with her name from a few weeks after her birth when we started getting people saying “keeping up with [name]Tom[/name] and [name]Katie[/name]?” or “Wow, that sounds middle-eastern”, or “You’re not Arabic”, or “That’s a Mormon name”. I struggled with her name up until about a month or so ago. He didn’t want to change it before… until someone told him it “sounds like a black person’s name”… I really hope that I don’t offend any one (I’m just simply stating a fact). From there on out, he’s wanted to change her name to something that “fits” her better.
Pdxlibrarian, Ha! That is hilarious!
Scarlettsmom, I wanted [name]Caitlin[/name] or [name]Cailyn[/name], I tried for months to get either. He was firm on not having [name]Cailyn[/name] because of a bratty girl we know named [name]Kayla[/name], and the [name]Cai[/name] part was too close to her name. I finally dropped [name]Cailyn[/name] and tried only [name]Caitlin[/name] - I mean all the way up until the final week of the pregnancy. He kept saying no, which I couldn’t understand because he had wanted it for our older daughter, too until he found a different name he liked. The main reason for not choosing [name]Caitlin[/name] with this baby was that he didn’t like [name]Cait[/name] or [name]Caity[/name] as her nn!
Like I said I really don’t want to just drop [name]Sariah[/name]. I have been calling her [name]Sariah[/name] [name]Caitlin[/name] all day. Can I do that - can I have her entire first name be [name]Sariah[/name] [name]Caitlin[/name] or [name]Sariah[/name]-[name]Caitlin[/name]??? That might be a little radical. Should I just put [name]Caitlin[/name] as the mn and still call her [name]Sariah[/name] [name]Caitlin[/name]? I think in my head, I’ve already made up my mind to change her mn to [name]Caitlin[/name] and keep [name]Sariah[/name] as her first. Each name has their own pros and cons. They are both so beautiful, too. It wouldn’t be such a big issue if I didn’t feel like [name]Caitlin[/name] was HER name from the beginning.