Ooff [name_f]Violet[/name_f] is pretty but you have valid concerns, so I would look for alternatives. She’s also become so popular!
[name_f]Flora[/name_f] is so underrated imo, she means flower 
I also love [name_f]Viola[/name_f], [name_f]Daisy[/name_f], [name_f]Primrose[/name_f], [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f], [name_f]Dahlia[/name_f], [name_f]Marigold[/name_f]