Oh no, I hope the hardships are over for you and your family!
[name_f][/name_f]These came to mind based on your top names, sorry if they feel a little random:
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Malachy[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Colm[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Theoden[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Emeric[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Jed[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Elden[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Elio[/name_m] / [name_m]Helio[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Lonan[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Watson[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Timeo[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Cedro[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Judah[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Galen[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sullivan[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Tarka[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rhidian[/name_m]
From your list, I really like [name_m]Ares[/name_m], [name_m]Rohan[/name_m], [name_m]Nelson[/name_m], [name_m]Antonio[/name_m], [name_m]Timoleon[/name_m], [name_m]Roswell[/name_m], [name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m], [name_m]Kent[/name_m], [name_m]Beckett[/name_m] and [name_m]Adler[/name_m], by the way!