As a kid I watched all the Disney classics. Especially the [name_f]Princess[/name_f] Ones (Beauty and the Beast, [name_f]Snow[/name_f] White, Sleeping Beauty, The [name_m]Little[/name_m] Mermaid, etc). I really don’t get it when people pull the damsel-in-distress card…those were my favorite types of movies as a kid but I didn’t grow up believing I needed a man to take care of me. My foster brother watched them with me too and he didn’t grow believing women were whiny and couldn’t do things for themselves, even to this day HE loves watching Disney movies with his 3 year old son and 6 year old daughter.
There were a couple scenes in certain movies that I wouldn’t watch without my brother, sister or mom; movies like: [name_f]Bambi[/name_f], The [name_m]Lion[/name_m] [name_m]King[/name_m], Dumbo, The [name_m]Wizard[/name_m] of [name_m]Oz[/name_m] (especially this one!!) and Beauty and the Beast…I’m sure there were more too. But I watched them. [name_m]Even[/name_m] though some scenes scared me…I refused to stop watching them. And I agree with the person that said they didn’t really grasp what happened to [name_f]Bambi[/name_f]'s mom when they were a young kid. I had the same feeling with that movie and many others with tragic events like that in other movies.
As for shows: my favorite was I [name_f]Love[/name_f] [name_f]Lucy[/name_f]…which I think is pretty child friendly
I personally plan to show my kids all the movies and shows I watched as a kid as well as any newly made ones I find suitable. I don’t plan to let my kids watch that many shows though, I really can’t stand some of the shows that are put on TV nowadays and it would be so easy for me to turn around for 5 minutes while they change the channel to something inappropriate. It will mostly be movies (that way I know for sure what they are watching) for us.
I’m just starting to introduce shows to [name_m]Cato[/name_m] but he is only 14 months old and still doesn’t have the attention span to watch something for more than 5-10 minutes without jumping around. He would much rather be doing something than watching something which I’m happy to comply with. When he is tired and before he has his bath though he is usually more willing to watch something and snuggle on the couch (He likes anything with music at that time).
As he gets older (like at between 2-4 years old) I will start to show him stuff like [name_m]Bob[/name_m] the Builder, [name_f]Dora[/name_f] the [name_u]Explorer[/name_u], Curious [name_m]George[/name_m], [name_f]Madeline[/name_f], [name_u]Max[/name_u] & [name_u]Ruby[/name_u] (my nephew loves this), I [name_f]Love[/name_f] [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] as well as some of the less scary Disney movies like [name_m]Tarzan[/name_m], [name_f]Spirit[/name_f], [name_m]Toy[/name_m] [name_u]Story[/name_u], Beauty and the Beast and Finding [name_m]Nemo[/name_m]…
Bottom line is I think you should just show kids a movie and if they show obvious signs of being too scared to watch it then just shut it off and try again when they are older…basically I work by Trial and Error.