What do you do when name is already taken by an erotic author??!

So, I just ‘googled’ one of my favorite names on my list, [name_m]Hank[/name_m] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m]. Turns out [name_m]Hank[/name_m] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m] fairly well known erotic novel author. :eek: Looks like that names off my list, soo disappointed. Husband couldn’t stop laughing. :mad:

What do you do when you find out your name is ‘taken’ possibly by something you find unsavory or weird and do not want people to say, “Oh! [name_m]Hank[/name_m] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m], like the author?” Know what I mean? I am kind of afraid to ‘google’ the rest of the names on my list…[name_f]Do[/name_f] y’all research names before picking them? I hadn’t ever thought of it until now. Dang, back to the drawing board for me.