I love [name_m]Julian[/name_m]! It was on my list for a while but I can’t bring myself to like any of the nicknames. I think it goes ok with [name_m]Ryder[/name_m], but the combo could be better.
I love [name_m]Julian[/name_m]. It’s certainly not the first name I would think of in a sib set with [name_m]Ryder[/name_m] but it is not a strange choice. I think you get a feel for your child’s personality when you carry them. If he feels like a [name_m]Julian[/name_m] then that is his name.
I agree that [name_m]Julian[/name_m] sounds soft and feminine. I don’t think it matches in style with [name_m]Ryder[/name_m]. Maybe [name_m]Silas[/name_m] or [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] would pair better. I’d definitely go with something edgier.