I know these six year old triplets named [name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f], Abigaille and Tabian. [name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f] and Abigaille are identical and Tabian is their fraternal brother. I know it’s none of my business about how they raise their children, but I have to ask your opinions. I feel like none of them have their own identity; and feel like that might effect them more when they grow up.
They go by [name_u]Gabby[/name_u], [name_u]Abby[/name_u] and [name_f]Tabby[/name_f]. And are extremely colour-cordinated. [name_u]Gabby[/name_u] in purple and light blue, [name_u]Abby[/name_u] in red and orange and [name_f]Tabby[/name_f] in dark blue and green. They are also dressed exactly the same. The only exceptions are these:
[name_u]Jean[/name_u]/[name_m]Denim[/name_m] dresses = [name_u]Jean[/name_u]/[name_m]Denim[/name_m] overalls
[name_u]Jean[/name_u]/[name_m]Denim[/name_m] skirts = [name_u]Jean[/name_u]/[name_m]Denim[/name_m] pants/shorts
Coloured skirts = coloured shorts
Hearts/Flowers = Stars
Princesses = Pixar
Kittens = Dinosaurs
I’ve realized that it’s come to the point where she (it’s really only the mother, the father doesn’t seem to care/doesn’t want to get in the way) won’t let them buy clothing that they like if it doesn’t come in the other colours/opposite gender theme. I feel like they’re going to rebel like crazy when they’re older, by taking up completely different senses of styles. I also feel like this could be unhealthy for them. Am I crazy thinking there’s something wrong here?