I finally found a name my SO and I both love but he still pushes for his all time favorite, [name]Lilith[/name] which I’m meh about. I don’t love it but I don’t hate it. So the compromise was to “see what she looks like” when we have a daughter. So what do you think [name]Milena[/name] looks like? Or a [name]Lilith[/name]?
[name]Milena[/name] I picture to be tan with dark hair and dark eyes. [name]Lilith[/name] I picture an old woman in a nursing home. I would go with [name]Milena[/name].
Thanks for the help!
[name]Milena[/name] I picture someone classy with an exotic flare. [name]Lilith[/name] makes me think of [name]Lilith[/name] Fair, which makes me think of a hippie/feminist for some reason, lol.
[name]Milena[/name] makes me think of someone beautiful with dark hair and blue eyes. Possibly of Slavic origin.
I can’t picture a [name]Lillith[/name] though for some reason.
I picture a [name]Lilith[/name] as a vivacious free-spirited brunette who happens to be a bit of a flirt.
I picture [name]Milena[/name] as a shy red-head who loves swimming. I have no idea why.
Oddly many of these follow what pps have said.
I picture a [name]Lilith[/name] like [name]Frazier[/name] [name]Craine[/name]'s x-wife on the old re-run show Cheers. Dark hair, pale face, staunch expression and very boring. That’s the only [name]Lilith[/name] I’ve ever seen.
I picture [name]Milena[/name] as a pretty girl with long blonde hair and blue eyes. Someone who is bubbly with the nn [name]Millie[/name].
[name]Just[/name] my opinion.
I once knew a [name]Milena[/name] who was sooo pretty. With [name]Lilith[/name] a cranky old woman comes to mind although I do like the name.
For [name]Milena[/name], I picture a little girl, similar to [name]Suri[/name] [name]Cruise[/name], cutesy, dark brown hair, and soft features. Very sweet.
For [name]Lilith[/name], I picture a spunky red head.
Thanks for the help ladies!
I gave [name]Milena[/name] to my youngest ([name]Arrow[/name] [name]Milena[/name]) & though she does have dark hair, she’s only 5 months old so that’s likely to change. And she is BEAUTIFUL! I may be a little biased :-D.
I don’t believe people can look like a name. I.E. There a thousand Jessicas & they all look different. I know one that is a brunette & as silly as can be & I know one that is a redhead & rather serious with a little fun side.
Go with the name that you like the flow of, the sound of, & the meaning of. [name]Milena[/name] means “love, warmth, grace” It goes well with my older daughter’s middle of [name]Grace[/name]. 
[name]Lilith[/name] & [name]Milena[/name] are both very nice names. [name]Lilith[/name] with potential nickname of [name]Lilly[/name] & [name]Milena[/name] with the potential nickname of [name]Lena[/name] or [name]Milly[/name].
Good [name]Luck[/name]!
For [name]Milena[/name], I picture [name]Lina[/name] from Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants lol. Someone delicate and Greek looking, slightly exotic. I can see it easily on a tiny girl though, mostly on a brunette but maybe a blond. [name]Lilith[/name] I see a young adorable girl around 4 with blond hair and light eyes who goes by the nickname [name]Lily[/name], very spunky and cutesy.
For [name]Milena[/name], I picture a [name]Mila[/name] Kunis type, because that’s her full name. So tanned, dark hair, exotic, etc.
[name]Lilith[/name] I picture as a ‘dark’ kind of Goth girl, maybe because of the whole dark meaning of the name.
That’s exactly who I imagined when I saw [name]Milena[/name] as well 
When I think of [name]Milena[/name], I think of a little girl in my church ([name]Mil[/name]@na). Russian, long, whispy blond hair, a scalawag grin, quiet, shy, whose heart belongs to grandma. Honestly, I am pretty close with most of the kids in my church, I’m heavily involved in the children’s ministries and all the kids seem to love me, but since her parents are teaching her Russian as a first language and she really doesn’t know that much English, I don’t know that much about her. She’s a cute little kid, though, with an adorable personality.
I got [name]Milena[/name] from [name]Mila[/name] Kunis. Lol. I don’t see how people can look like a name either. However I definitely picture [name]Milena[/name] with darker hair. But I can’t picture a [name]Lilith[/name] at all.
Thanks for the input everyone.