When Your Husband Surprises You… 🤣

Hey Berries!

I hope you are having a fabulous day! :heart:

So, I commented on NB’s recent Gothic / Halloween FB post saying how Vesper has always caught my attention. Next minute my husband is agreeing and saying he thinks it’s really cool. :flushed: And here’s me thinking I won’t bother mentioning it because it won’t be his cup of tea! :rofl::woman_facepalming:

Since, I’ve had my detective hat on and I’m just loving it more. The meaning is beautiful (not that positive meaning is mandatory for us, but it is a bonus!) and the mythological background fits in perfectly with our other name loves.

So far my only question is the length - is it too short beside our other names?? (see UC) I think the other similarities in vibe and origin make it fit for me…. BUT I have a big thing about patterns, so the length differential is throwing me slightly.

What do you think about Vesper??

Vesper is giving me major Crimson Peak vibes (anyone who knows about our wedding knows why this is 100% on point with my soul haha), while hubby says it makes him think of James Bond.

Now for combination creating fun!! :grin::heart_eyes:

These are the girl’s names on our list that have no allocation / no combination:

Reverie
Aurora
Niamh
Caoimhe
Evangeline
Amethyst
Apolline
Delphine
Phoenix
Opal
October
Sonnet
Story
Calanthe
Hypatia
Eponine

Any combination potential / inspiration come to your mind? I’m also down for new suggestions! Also, for context, we always pick double middles. :grin:

Xxxx

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[name_f]Opal[/name_f] Delphine!!

I would also add [name_u]Calypso[/name_u] to your list

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[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] has always sounded a bit harsh to me, but I still like it!

[name_f]Amethyst[/name_f] and [name_u]October[/name_u] are my favorites from your list!

Perhaps one to add is [name_u]Fable[/name_u] :blush:

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[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] is lovely with your list!

I love the idea of …

[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Niamh[/name_f] [name_f]Delphine[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f] [name_f]Opal[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Calanthe[/name_f] [name_f]Delphine[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Story[/name_u] [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Hypatia[/name_f] [name_f]Niamh[/name_f] (I think this is my favorite)
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Caoimhe[/name_f] [name_f]Eponine[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Calanthe[/name_f] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Niamh[/name_f] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f]

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I want to love Calypso so much, but it just has never clicked for me. I do like the vibe, but just not enough, unfortunately.

These are close to the top of my list too. I’m really like October with Vesper, but the repeated -er sound is clunking a little, I think… :thinking: I will have to mull.

Amaaaaaaazing suggestions!! :heart_eyes::heartpulse:
Vesper Story Evangeline & Vesper Hypatia Niamh are just chef’s kiss :heart_eyes: Vesper Calanthe Sonnet is also just magical!

Oh yeeessss! I do love Fable. So pretty!

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[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] is fabulous! It’s a real favourite of mine too, but my husband would never agree and I think it fits your vibe so much better :black_heart:

It’s sleek and dramatic and glamorous, with bags of energy and fire. [name_u]Love[/name_u] the “evening star” meaning too, although the link to the Catholic service Vespers might put me off slightly since I’m not Catholic.

I don’t find the length problematic at all. It’s got plenty of weight and presence to it despite being a syllable or two shorter than some of your other options. Visually, it’s not a particularly short name.

[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f] really jumps out at me from that list of middles. I’d vote [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f] [name_f]Opal[/name_f], [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f] or [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f] [name_u]Story[/name_u] (or Fable?)

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It also occurs to me that you might like @Dechen favourite [name_f]Vespertine[/name_f], perhaps as a middle?

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This is the loveliest description, and I do agree.

We’re not Catholic either, but I don’t find it puts me off. I kind of like the sacred / spiritual feeling it gives the name.

I appreciate this :heartpulse: It’s funny how visual length and sound length can feel so different.

Vesper Apolline Sonnet / Story are so beautiful!:heart_eyes:

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I love [name_u]Vesper[/name_u], even though I’m biased :grin: I second [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f] and [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Opal[/name_f]. I also think [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Opal[/name_f] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f] sounds good together. And [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Delphine[/name_f] [name_f]Opal[/name_f] would be stunning!

Other suggestions:
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Juliet[/name_f] [name_f]Opal[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]October[/name_u] [name_f]Moon[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Niamh[/name_f] [name_f]Lucille[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Aurora[/name_f] [name_f]Colette[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Athena[/name_f] [name_u]Story[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Isadora[/name_f] [name_f]Hypatia[/name_f]

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These are just stunning! Thank you :heart_eyes::grin:

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[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] has a similiar vibe to your other names so I think it works! It’s shorter but it’s a name that has a lot of energy and a lot of presence!!

[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] in itself is sleek, interesting and gorgeous!

Some combos:

[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Delphine[/name_f] [name_f]Opal[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Calanthe[/name_f] [name_f]Niamh[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Apolline[/name_f] [name_u]Story[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Eponine[/name_f] [name_f]Caoimhe[/name_f]

Some suggestions

[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Calliope[/name_f] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f] [name_f]Ginevra[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Emeraude[/name_f] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Leontine[/name_f] [name_f]Juno[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Ilaria[/name_f] [name_u]Winter[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Lysandra[/name_f] [name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f] [name_u]Onyx[/name_u]

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I love this description! :heartpulse:

Vesper Calanthe Niamh is just beautiful :heart_eyes:

Evangeline Onyx is a fabulous middle combo. We actually have Onyx on our list for boys, but it’s quite unisex really.

I’m in a constant state of flux over Juno… sometimes it seems magical and sometimes I don’t care for it. I don’t know what it is about it… :woman_shrugging:

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[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] is one of my all time favorite girl names! I absolutely love the vibe, sound and look. It’s very fairy-like to me, but also very strong and kinda cool?

Some other names I love that give me gothic/mythology/halloween vibes:
[name_f]Sappho[/name_f]
[name_f]Tauriel[/name_f]
[name_f]Arwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Lillemor[/name_f]
[name_u]Lumen[/name_u]
[name_f]Freydis[/name_f]
[name_f]Hesper[/name_f]
[name_f]Alouette[/name_f]
[name_f]Callidora[/name_f]
[name_f]Anemone[/name_f]
Elendil
[name_f]Eluned[/name_f]
[name_f]Dagmar[/name_f]

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vesper is beautiful :dizzy: one of my fav girls’ names!

vesper reverie sonnet & vesper aurora phoenix would be beautiful :heart_eyes:

some other ideas:
vesper october sonnet
vesper opal phoenix
vesper apolline story

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Oh I love these!! :heart: Thank you for your suggestions! :grin:

@Ruthvd

I honestly didn’t know [name_f]Anemone[/name_f] was a name! But I think I love it… I always wondered what those flowers were called, and now I know!

I do love [name_f]Alouette[/name_f]. It has such a beautiful sound. So soft and flowy. :heartpulse: I’m a long time lover of [name_f]Arwen[/name_f] too - we have it on our list on a different combination.

I love the look of [name_f]Eluned[/name_f], but not so much the pronunciation. It does have major magical vibes though!

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