I think [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Elenora[/name_f] is better because it flows more smoothly and has meaning for both of you. I know what you mean when you are concerned about the meaning “bitter” however I didn’t know [name_f]Mary[/name_f] meaned this until I started going on naming sites and I don’t think too many people know the meaning.