Thanks for all the responses!
In answer to the question about [name]Vibeke[/name]… there are a couple reasons it made its way onto our list. My husband knew a Weibke who made a good impression, so he liked that version of the name, but I’m really not a fan of “W” names. I lived in Denmark and had heard of the name [name]Vibeke[/name], but never gave it much thought 'til he mentioned Weibke. I thought I’d throw it out on a poll here, because if there’s anyplace that different names have a welcome reception, it seems to be Nameberry!
(For the record, the one [name]Vibeke[/name] I was close with in Denmark was also a middle-aged woman. Oh well… I do like the suggestion of [name]Viveka[/name]! That’s cool!)
I’m leaning toward [name]Sylvie[/name] or [name]Francesca[/name] for our name… we’ll see if I can get DH on board.