[name_m]Hi[/name_m]- I’m in the process of changing my name (I’m trans FtM), and I need help deciding which one would be the best fit. I’m a pretty big dork, and am generally bubbly, but I’ve got a serious side as well. Which name do you think is best? (Or if you have any other mixtures of the names below, or any suggestions yourself, please let me know!) Thanks!
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Potential nicknames: [name_m]Monty[/name_m] (for [name_m]Montague[/name_m] or [name_m]Montgomery[/name_m]), [name_u]Ash[/name_u] (for [name_u]Ashton[/name_u]), [name_u]Cal[/name_u] (for [name_m]Calum[/name_m]), [name_u]Mars[/name_u]/[name_f]Mar[/name_f] (for [name_m]Markus[/name_m]), Rid (for [name_u]Ridley[/name_u])
Looooooove [name_m]Montague[/name_m]/[name_m]Monty[/name_m]!! It’s got wearable class that will age really well and [name_m]Monty[/name_m] is awesome. [name_m]Merlin[/name_m] is definitely showing your dork side, but honestly, I’m loving it. [name_m]Monty[/name_m] M. Ruyak / [name_m]Montague[/name_m] M. Ruyak, sounds pretty spiffy.
Also like [name_m]Montague[/name_m]/[name_m]Monty[/name_m] [name_m]Ernest[/name_m] and [name_m]Montague[/name_m]/[name_m]Monty[/name_m] [name_m]Emrys[/name_m] (little more subtle [name_m]Merlin[/name_m] reference and what a dashing name!!!) [name_m]Montague[/name_m] [name_u]Ridley[/name_u] sounds good, too.
I think my absolute favorite is [name_m]Montague[/name_m] [name_m]Emrys[/name_m].
Good luck to you! <3
Your reply made me smile so hard it’s ridiculous! Thank you so much!!! <3<3<3 I love the sound of Montague Emrys!
Yay!! I think it’s super handsome
So classy but playful, too.
I love the nickname [name_u]Mars[/name_u]. But I find [name_u]Ashton[/name_u] [name_m]Montgomery[/name_m] the best. I really like [name_u]August[/name_u] (nn [name_u]Gus[/name_u] or Auggie) or [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] (nn [name_f]Atty[/name_f]) if that helps at all.
Good luck!! 
I’m so indecisive and I like them all, but it seems like you use a variant of [name_m]Monty[/name_m] the most in all of your options which makes me think you feel a stronger connection to that name maybe. I also really like [name_m]Montague[/name_m] [name_m]Emrys[/name_m] that bluedanube suggested.
Thanks! I definitely feel a connection to [name_m]Monty[/name_m], but I’m also pretty connected to [name_m]Markus[/name_m].
Thanks so much! I love the name [name_m]Atlas[/name_m]!
I can see why its difficult to choose from them! I love so many from your list! I particularly love [name_m]Calum[/name_m] [name_m]Montgomery[/name_m] and [name_m]Markus[/name_m] [name_u]Ridley[/name_u]. My favourite is [name_m]Markus[/name_m] Ridley with the nn [name_u]Mars[/name_u]. [name_m]Markus[/name_m] is strong and serious while [name_u]Mars[/name_u] gives it a more playful vibe. I think it would be perfect for you.
Good luck! 
I like [name_m]Markus[/name_m] [name_m]Merlin[/name_m] ‘[name_u]Mars[/name_u]’ (such a great nn choice!) and [name_m]Calum[/name_m] [name_m]Montgomery[/name_m]!
Thank you so much! And yeah, the nickname’s a big plus haha
That’s one of the reasons I love the name [name_m]Markus[/name_m] 
My favorite is [name_m]Calum[/name_m] [name_m]Montgomery[/name_m], because it’s serious but not too serious.
[name_m]Montague[/name_m] seems to fit the personality traits you provided. Classic Shakespearean name that ages well, and retains uniqueness. [name_m]Monty[/name_m] as a nn is fantastic. I’m also in the process of changing my name, but only because I dislike my given. If you’re indecisive, I highly suggest wearing each candidate for a while before changing it legally.
Important Note: Everyone’s perception and opinion [name_m]WILL[/name_m] vary. Make it all about what YOU want, versus what others want for you. I’ve been settled on a family name ([name_m]Kane[/name_m]) for about a year now, despite some family/friends hating it at first. Good [name_m]Luck[/name_m]!
Thanks so much for the advice! And [name_m]Kane[/name_m] is an awesome name (though it does make me think of [name_m]Cain[/name_m] and [name_m]Abel[/name_m] haha)
I love the last name of [name_m]Thorne[/name_m]. So many names go with it
[name_m]Markus[/name_m] [name_m]Montgomery[/name_m] Sounds good!