why is choosing a name so hard? Please help!

I personally think that choosing a name is one of the HARDEST parts about bringing a child into the world.
[name_m]Even[/name_m] after having my first two children I had to practice saying their names in private so that I could introduce them to friends and family. I love the names they have now but it took me several months to get used to the idea of so permanently marking my children.

I am really hoping for some help in finding some new and creative idea’s on a name for baby three.

Big Brother is [name_m]Cannon[/name_m] [name_u]Michael[/name_u], his first name has deep family significance and fits him very nicely now.
Big [name_f]Sister[/name_f] is Arliana [name_f]Allyse[/name_f], again her middle name has strong family meaning and I have fallen deeply in love with her first name even if it did take me weeks to be able to say it out loud without a knot in my throat.

Now baby three is going to be here in just a few weeks and I have that pit in my stomach again about finding the right name.

I feel like I am pretty picky and lots of names get scratched before they have the chance to get off the ground.
I cant choose another name that starts with A both DH and I have A names and it was hard enough to name our daughter another A name I don’t want to do it again!
I despise gender neutral.
I would prefer to stay away from overly trendy or top 100 names unless something really special is out there.

So here is the hitch DH has decided that he wants the baby to be [name_m]Evander[/name_m] he even has our older kids calling my bump baby [name_m]Evander[/name_m].

I feel pretty neutral about it
I could probably like it if I could find the right name to go with it.
I would be happy to have it as a middle name or a first name.

Please please please help me find a name to go with [name_m]Evander[/name_m]!
Our last name starts with W
Some ideas’s DH likes are

[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_u]Dean[/name_u]
[name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Bowen[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Quinten[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]

What do you think of these idea’s???
which is best? Is there another name that would go well with my other kids names that can help [name_m]Evander[/name_m] seem more natural?

Naming a baby is almost harder than birthing the baby lol! I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_m]Evander[/name_m], it sounds AWESOME with your other kids’ names [name_f]IMO[/name_f]. [name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_u]Dean[/name_u] is my favorite from your list, I also really like
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]Marcus[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]Gideon[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]Wolf[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m]

I love [name_m]Bowen[/name_m] Evanander! A few ideas:

[name_m]Felix[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
Lowen [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Finnian[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_u]Glenn[/name_u]
[name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]John[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] [name_m]Wesley[/name_m]