[name]Jensen[/name] - I can see the appeal for a girl, but this is definitely masculine to me. I don’t think you would have to worry about a [name]Jenny[/name] nn if this was on your boy’s list, but if you name a daughter this she’s bound to get [name]Jen[/name]/[name]Jenny[/name]-ized.
[name]Lilou[/name] - I love it, but it does make me think of the movie 5th Element.
[name]Rigby[/name] - love it for a boy’s name.
[name]Signy[/name] - probably will be confused with [name]Sydney[/name], but I like this one regardless!
[name]Sinclair[/name] - All masculine to me.
[name]Murray[/name] - again, just can’t get with the idea of this on a girl.
[name]Arwen[/name] - love it-- beautiful name. You will always get [name]Lord[/name] of the Rings comments. For what it’s worth, she’s a positive and beautiful character in the books and movies.
[name]Tula[/name] - very cute.
[name]Milly[/name] - also cute-- goes along with [name]Tula[/name] quite nicely.
[name]Holland[/name] - I would pass this up because of the [name]Holly[/name] nn problems. Would you consider this for a boy? I think it – and [name]Jensen[/name] – would be wonderful boy’s names!
I also vote for considering [name]Elsa[/name] as a first name-- it’s gorgeous! [name]Love[/name] [name]Georgia[/name] too but it seems to be getting pretty popular.
As to your other list…
[name]Destry[/name] (g) – makes me think of Dysentery. Not sure why.
[name]Theron[/name] (g) - love it for a boy.
[name]Elliot[/name] (g) - Makes me think of the TV show Scrubs. Still, probably my favorite of your boyish girl names.
[name]Emmanuel[/name] (g) - not a fan
[name]Posey[/name] (g) - cute. Goes with [name]Tula[/name] and [name]Milly[/name].
[name]Lorcan[/name] (b) - [name]Love[/name] this!
[name]Casper[/name] (b) - Very handsome!
[name]Pippa[/name] (g) - Also goes with [name]Posey[/name], [name]Tula[/name], [name]Milly[/name].
It seems like you gravitate toward very masculine names or very cute names for girls. I would probably pick one style and stick to it. Obviously I personally prefer the cute names over masculine names, but my one concern is that they may not fit very well on grown women? [name]Just[/name] something to think about!
Overall I love your names! You are off to a great start!