I enjoy my name, but if I was to name a kid, I would want as much opportunity as possible for being creative with the name! Which to me means using an entirely different set of names. Perhaps I would choose a name with a related meaning to my own, if I wanted to somehow honor myself (:
The only reason I wouldnāt pass it on to a child for a middle is that I have too many other people, novels, and ideas Iād rather honor than use my own name! (Plus, I just like so many names. Iām sure many relate. )
I have a lot of conflicting feelings about my name. On one hand itās very pretty, I love how my parents chose it, and I definitely think it fits who I am, but on the other, itās got a very unique spelling that causes a lot of confusion and Iām pretty sure barely any of my friends know how to spell it right. It also gets confused with very popular similar sounding names (not popular now, but back when I was born).
I like my name a lot (my middle name specifically, which is what I go by) but I wouldnāt want to give it to a kid just because Iād want them to have their own identity!!
I would definitely be okay with an honor name, such as a name with a similar meaning, I just think it would be nice to have an honor while still letting my kid be their own person!!
I voted for both āI wouldnāt and I like my nameā and āI wouldnāt and I donāt like my nameā, because Iām planning on hopefully changing my name, but I wouldnāt give my child my current legal name nor my future one.
I just would find it incredibly incredibly odd having to call out your own name to refer to your child. And in terms of using it as a middle name, I just donāt see a reason? Why would I want to honour myself - Iād feel so conceited (to be clear, Iām not saying that every [name_m]Junior[/name_m] out there is named that way because their parent was conceited, Iām only talking about my situation)
I love my name but Juniors are not something that we do in my culture so it feels weird.
[name_f]My[/name_f] name happens to be more popular now than when I was born (which is all relative since we went from 3 births to about 50 I think) so it would work well for a child. But it is not the easiest to pronounce in the US, which would rule it out even if I was inclined to use it. It would work as a middle though.
I ask because I might give my name as a middle. [name_f]My[/name_f] DS wants to use their middle name or a variation (probably as a middle as well.) I was also very curious! I might do an extended poll to get more in-depth answers later
Thank you for the responses this has been very fun to read yalls answers
[name_f]My[/name_f] name is [name_f]Diana[/name_f] and I like it, but I do get fed up with people thinking it is [name_f]Diane[/name_f]. For this reason I would only consider giving it as a middle name. If I wanted a similar name, I would go with [name_f]Deanna[/name_f]. Never heard of a [name_f]Deanne[/name_f], so that confusion is avoided, and I like the nn [name_f]Dee[/name_f]. But there are so many beautiful girl names that I donāt think it would make my top ten.
I donāt necessarily like or dislike my name. I wouldnāt give my name to my child since I donāt love it. However there is a high likelihood if I ever had a son they would get my initials (or my initials reversed) since thatās been a tradition going back many generations in my family.
There are specific cultural reasons why I would probably feel weird doing it. I do really love my name and that almost has me thinking I would say yes if not for those reasons, but also I like so many other names and donāt really know that I would want to share mine when I can use perfectly wonderful other names. If it werenāt my name, though, I would probably love to use it.
Iām kind of āmehā about my name, but it does have meaning to me and my family, and I would love to pass that along to my daughter! Only as a middle name though, because of the crazy popularity. (Which is why Iām meh about my name for me haha.)