My husband and I are in the middle of naming our first child, and are coming across a few problems.
I love the name [name]Jane[/name], but it’s not our first, or even second choice. So, I’m torn between using it as a middle name, or ‘saving’ it for a future daughter. My husband and I plan on having a large family, but what if we have all boys? Or only one or two daughters?
I’m afraid that if I use it for as a middle name now, I’ll regret it later. But, I’m also afraid that if I ‘save’ it for when (if) we have our third daughter, I may never get to use it.
So what would you do? Would you save a name you love? Or would you use it as a midde name?