Oh I love this thread. I don’t want to be too picky when it comes to picking names, but I definitely have some basic rules that I will follow.
1.Must be easy to spell or at least not have a bunch of spelling variations. I can handle [name]Emilia[/name]/[name]Amelia[/name], but I don’t think I’d ever use something like [name]Hailey[/name] just because you can spell lee so many ways (Ley, [name]Leigh[/name], [name]Lee[/name], [name]Lea[/name], Lie…).
2.Something that will age well.
3.No obvious teasing potential with the name or initials. No name is ever really safe from teasing, but again, nothing too obvious. I wouldn’t use something like [name]Hortensia[/name] because the first syllable is Hor.
4.Nothing too similar with other potential siblings. I’m fine with two kids’ names starting with the same letter(I would use [name]Charlotte[/name] and [name]Clara[/name] in a heartbeat), but I wouldn’t be like the Duggars and have every name start with J.
5. A celebrity or a celebrity kid having that name generally won’t prevent me from using it, however it can’t be something tied with one celebrity. I second @pinkballerina’s examples of [name]Shakira[/name] and [name]Rihanna[/name]. As far as celebrity kids go, I wouldn’t use [name]Blue[/name] or [name]Suri[/name].
Not overly common, if it is and has multiple nicknames, try them. I have a super common name for my age and I always hated you couldn’t call me anything but [name]Erin[/name].
Try and not have the initials match, if it happens with two of them it is fine.
Make sure [name]Jason[/name] loves the name as much as me and has input too.
Obvious to spell and pronounce (no popular variations)
Must contain a “hope”. By which I mean, I want there to be something about the name that says your parents hope you will grow up to _______. Whether that is " be like a certain person" “live up to a meaning” “conduct yourself in such a way that you bring even greater honor to that name”.
A name which has some kind of significance to it, even if it’s not a family name (which a lot of my names are in some capacity) the name must be meaningful.
[name]Will[/name] age well.
Classic
The name must have a saint in it somewhere, what can I say I’m Catholic
[name]Honor[/name] family members (middle names can be exact but first names should be slightly different or with a different nickname)
Age well
Literary or historical reference preferred
Flows with surname
Sounds okay with potential sibling names
[name]Solomon[/name] [name]Thor[/name] Solo, [name]Jeffrey[/name] [name]Scott[/name] [name]Free[/name], & Orison [name]Jack[/name] [name]Ori[/name] < (Dad’s name is Jeffrey Thor Jeff, Orison means prayer, Solomon means peace, Jack is both of my grandfathers’ names)
Ottilie Margaret Tilly, Vada Katherine, & Linnea Jean < (Mom’s name is Margaret, Katherine is a friend of mine who died and Kathryn is my cousin, Linnea is Swedish like my family, Jean is after Nana Dean, Grandma Mary Joan, Auntie Jan, Aunt Jenny, and Grandpa Jack Eugene