My husband is open to the idea of [name]Mabyn[/name]. We are still letting is settle a little while. It is definitely on the list, which is very very short…two names to be exact. We are trying to be extremely open to ideas. We felt that we should stick with M names, especially since this is our last child. We’ve been told by so many people how awful it would be to veer away from M names at this point, that we would be singling our fourth child out by giving them a non-M name. Given the situation, we may try to explore other letters. After all, we will most certainly tell our child in the future that her name was “[name]Mabel[/name]” for four months. Then, shortly before her birth, we were forced to think of something else. We are looking at “M” names first, of course. If I can’t find anything that I just adore, though, I am open to going to another letter. Surely our little one will understand that we preferred to give her a name we really loved, rather than a name that we only sort of liked, just because it had the “right” first letter? We are looking at “M” names right now.
[name]Mabyn[/name] is definitely on the list. Another name that crossed my mind today was [name]Hazel[/name]. I don’t like it as well as [name]Mabel[/name], and there is no family connection to the name, but it has a similar “old lady vintage” type feel. That is one thing [name]Mabyn[/name] lacks, in my opinion, though it is a beautiful name. I’m not quite sure what category it is in, probably because I’ve never heard of it. I love how unique it is and how it lends itself to similar nicknames “[name]Mabs[/name]” and such, though. I wonder if she would have trouble with people misspelling her name, if it should be spelled Maben or Mabin? [name]Just[/name] things I’m mulling around for a while. Does [name]Mabyn[/name] sound feminine enough, or might people mistake her for a boy? I’m sortof old fashioned that way. I like there to be no confusion about the gender of the child. If we use [name]Mabyn[/name], I’m sure I would have to pair it with an ultra-frilly middle name…such as [name]Evangeline[/name].
I would definitely go for a name like [name]Winifred[/name] or [name]Penelope[/name], but my hubby is not a fan. My husband has suggested that I take a few days off from thinking about baby names and then start fresh in a few days. I think that is what I will do.
Thank you all so much for your help! These forums have been a tremendous form of encouragement at a time when I can’t confide in friends or family. I so appreciate the time that went into each and every response. It has been so helpful!