At a standoff with hubby

We’ve reached a standoff at 33 weeks! Help me think of new suggestions?

  • Middle name is [name_f]Grace[/name_f]. We agree, and do not want to move it to first name status.
  • Our last name is Lithuanian - it’s 3 syllables but complicated for many. This is husband’s lineage - I am Welsh/Irish.

My top names:
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f]

  • I don’t like alliteration so B names are out

His top names:
[name_f]Brianna[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwenyth[/name_f]
[name_f]Vanessa[/name_f]

  • He wants something feminine and pretty, nothing hipster or too unique (but he vetoed [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Katherine[/name_f], etc.)

We hate each other’s top picks, and he’s vetoed about 30 others I’ve provided. I’ve started trying to hunt down options that give him a nickname of “[name_f]Bri[/name_f]/[name_f]Brie[/name_f]/[name_f]Bre[/name_f]” without the name actually beginning in B.

I proposed [name_f]Abrielle[/name_f]/[name_f]Aubrielle[/name_f] and he’s so-so on it. Anything similar??

We have a boy named [name_m]Jason[/name_m] as well.

[name_f]Gabriela[/name_f]/[name_f]Gabriella[/name_f]
[name_f]Daniela[/name_f]
[name_u]Vivian[/name_u]
[name_f]Viviana[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwendoline[/name_f]/[name_f]Gwendolen[/name_f]/[name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Celia[/name_f]
[name_f]Ariana[/name_f]

From your lists, I like [name_f]Tessa[/name_f] and [name_f]Vanessa[/name_f] best. Interestingly enough, they rhyme. What about another name with ‘ess’ in it…

[name_f]Tressa[/name_f]
[name_f]Jessa[/name_f]/[name_f]Jessamine[/name_f]
[name_f]Alessandra[/name_f]

If the NN [name_f]Bree[/name_f]/[name_f]Brie[/name_f] is something you could compromise, but B names are out, [name_f]Aubrielle[/name_f] seems like a good bet. Or, perhaps, just [name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]?

If you’re willing to consider [name_u]Aubrey[/name_u], then what about [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]? Classic without being overly fussy or “hipster”.

A few other suggestions inspired from your lists…
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Elise[/name_f]
[name_f]Alanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Elaina[/name_f]

Good luck!

Out of the names you mentioned, I think [name_f]Tessa[/name_f] would work best with a complicated three-syllable name.

For other suggestions:
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Lena[/name_f]
[name_f]Sabrina[/name_f]

Names with potential for the “[name_f]Bri[/name_f]” nickname (excluding those that start with B):

[name_f]Ambria[/name_f]
[name_f]Cambria[/name_f]
[name_f]Fabricia[/name_f]
[name_f]Gabriella[/name_f] ([name_m]Gabriel[/name_m]ė is the Lithuanian form, if that interests you)
[name_f]Sabrina[/name_f]
[name_f]Umbria[/name_f]

(Taken from this list.)

Some other -essa names: [name_f]Janessa[/name_f], [name_f]Agnessa[/name_f], [name_f]Inessa[/name_f], [name_f]Alessa[/name_f], [name_f]Claressa[/name_f], [name_f]Floressa[/name_f], [name_f]Odessa[/name_f]

Similar to [name_f]Abrielle[/name_f]/[name_f]Aubrielle[/name_f]: [name_u]Aubrey[/name_u], [name_f]Audrey[/name_f], [name_f]Abrianna[/name_f], Adrielle, [name_f]Arielle[/name_f], [name_f]Sabrina[/name_f], [name_f]Cambria[/name_f]

I like the suggestions of [name_f]Jessa[/name_f], [name_f]Gabriella[/name_f], and [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]. My favorites from your list are [name_f]Elena[/name_f] and [name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f]. Would he go for another variation of [name_f]Elena[/name_f] like [name_f]Elaina[/name_f], [name_f]Eliana[/name_f], [name_f]Laina[/name_f], or [name_f]Lena[/name_f]?

Other ideas:

[name_f]Amara[/name_f]
[name_f]Cassandra[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]
[name_f]Inessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Johanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Keira[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilah[/name_f]
[name_f]Marcella[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]
[name_f]Susannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]

[name_f]Aubrianna[/name_f] is another one that could work for [name_f]Bree[/name_f]/[name_f]Bri[/name_f]/[name_f]Bria[/name_f]
[name_f]Arabella[/name_f] I think you could also make it work for either on
[name_f]Abrienne[/name_f] or Aubrienne could also work

I like [name_f]Gwenyth[/name_f], but prefer [name_f]Guinevere[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f] is nice

Here are some suggestions:
[name_f]Helena[/name_f] (it can be pronounced as either ‘Heh-luh-nuh’ or 'Heh-lay-nuh)
[name_f]Aviana[/name_f]
[name_f]Adira[/name_f]
[name_u]Emery[/name_u]
[name_f]Livia[/name_f]
[name_f]Liv[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Isabelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Corinne[/name_f]
[name_f]Esme[/name_f]
Esca
[name_u]Fallon[/name_u]
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]
[name_u]Hadley[/name_u]
Aila/[name_f]Isla[/name_f]
[name_f]Indie[/name_f]
[name_f]Melody[/name_f]
Reya
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]

Best wishes!

[name_f]Sabra[/name_f], pronounced [name_m]SAY[/name_m]-bra, could be shortened to [name_f]Bree[/name_f]. (“In the 13th-century [name_u]Golden[/name_u] [name_u]Legend[/name_u], [name_f]Sabra[/name_f] was the name of the daughter of [name_m]Ptolemy[/name_m], king of [name_u]Egypt[/name_u]. She was rescued by St. [name_m]George[/name_m] from sacrifice to the dragon, or giant, and later married him. Used occasionally in [name_f]England[/name_f] as a girl’s name, especially in the 19th century, when it was sometimes spelled [name_f]Sabrah[/name_f]. Allegedly its use in the United States can be found as far back as the mid-1700s. Also occurs in the U.S. in the 1940s.”)

Would he settle for the nickname “[name_f]Ree[/name_f]” ([name_u]Ellery[/name_u], [name_u]Rhian[/name_u], [name_f]Marina[/name_f]) or “[name_f]Dree[/name_f]” ([name_u]Adria[/name_u], [name_u]Landry[/name_u])?

Other ideas:
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]
[name_f]Ebba[/name_f]
[name_f]Estella[/name_f] ("[name_f]Essie[/name_f]"?)
[name_f]Fenna[/name_f]
Jedda
[name_f]Jemima[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilias[/name_f]
[name_f]Mieke[/name_f]
[name_f]Nona[/name_f]
[name_f]Senna[/name_f]
[name_f]Shasta[/name_f]
[name_f]Soraya[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamara[/name_f]
[name_f]Twila[/name_f]
[name_f]Yara[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoya[/name_f]

What about:

[name_f]Aubria[/name_f]
[name_f]Aubriana[/name_f]
Fabrizia
[name_f]Vienna[/name_f]
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]/[name_f]Tilda[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]/[name_f]Evelina[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliana[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_u]Ember[/name_u]
[name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]
[name_f]Louisa[/name_f]
[name_f]Sidonie[/name_f]
[name_f]Vivienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Nessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Fabienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Alessia[/name_f]
[name_f]Calla[/name_f]
[name_u]Simone[/name_u]

Gwendolyn is my first thought. I really like most of the names on both of your lists. Here are some suggestions:

Gwendolyn
Genevieve
Zoe
Zara
Audrey
Felicity
Scarlett
Evangeline
Laurel
Carys
Isla

[name_f]Elena[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] is definitely feminine and goes well together.
[name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_f]Abigail[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] if he really likes the B sound.
there is also [name_f]Sabrina[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f]…[name_f]Audrina[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f]…[name_f]Adriana[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f]…

[name_u]Love[/name_u] the suggestion of [name_f]Sabrina[/name_f] with nickname [name_f]Bri[/name_f]!

A few more that might work as compromises between your favorites:

Addalyn
[name_f]Aliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Alina[/name_f]
[name_f]Audriana[/name_f]
[name_f]Alyssa[/name_f]
[name_f]Avalon[/name_f]
[name_f]Carissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Celestina[/name_f]
[name_f]Estelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Etta[/name_f]
Evelyn
[name_f]Francesca[/name_f]
[name_f]Karena[/name_f]
[name_f]Liliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f]
[name_f]Rihanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Rowena[/name_f]
[name_f]Selena[/name_f]
[name_f]Serena[/name_f]
[name_f]Sienna[/name_f]
[name_f]Tatiana[/name_f]
[name_f]Thalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Vesta[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Viola[/name_f]

Best of luck!

To get the nn [name_f]Bree[/name_f]/[name_f]Brie[/name_f]:
[name_f]Cambrie[/name_f]
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]
[name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f]

Feminine names:
[name_f]Aurelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Cecily[/name_f]
[name_f]Nicole[/name_f]
[name_f]Valentina[/name_f]
[name_f]Alina[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]

Classical names:
[name_f]Lily[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Irene[/name_f]
[name_f]Louisa[/name_f]
[name_f]Camille[/name_f]/[name_f]Camilla[/name_f]
[name_f]Cynthia[/name_f]

[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u] or [name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f]/[name_f]Gabriella[/name_f], maybe?

[name_f]Theresa[/name_f] (nn [name_f]Tessa[/name_f])
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f]
[name_f]Helena[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f]
[name_f]Vivienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]

I love [name_f]Tessa[/name_f]. Have you thought of [name_f]Jessa[/name_f]? Maybe he will meet halfway with this one, somehow?

[name_f]Tessa[/name_f] gets my vote.

[name_m]Alas[/name_m], my favorites are not making his final list. He might be pickier than me. LOL

He doesn’t like “Aub” combinations as spelling, so we’re still at [name_f]Abrielle[/name_f].
We’ve added [name_f]Karina[/name_f], and [name_f]Sarah[/name_f] to our list but he’s still wanting [name_f]Brianna[/name_f], which I veto.

This is harder than naming our son. :slight_smile:

[name_f]Cambria[/name_f]
[name_f]Sabrina[/name_f]
[name_f]Umbria[/name_f]

Of your lists I like [name_f]Tessa[/name_f], [name_f]Gwenyth[/name_f] and [name_f]Vanessa[/name_f] as well. But for nickname [name_f]Bri[/name_f] I think [name_f]Cambria[/name_f] is cute.

I’m not sure if you are using a long “A” or a short “A” on [name_f]Brianna[/name_f]. I would suggest, [name_f]Deanna[/name_f] or [name_f]Arianna[/name_f] for a non-b name with a similar sound.

I really like [name_f]Karina[/name_f] though.

He’s shut down [name_f]Cambria[/name_f] because it’s the name of a relatively poor, rural county in our state. LOL