Benjamin sounds too "Founding Fathers" with our last name - can it be softened/modernized?

Thank you! We aren’t super tied to [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] so I agree that changing the middle is an easy fix.

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And yes, I think once baby is named, hardly anyone will be examining the name from every angle like I am now. In fact, I know I have been overthinking the names in general as we’ve had a lot of time patiently waiting for baby to arrive! Today I have been reminding myself that while the name is important, it’s far from the most important thing about welcoming a new family member and we should be stressing a little less about this choice and just enjoying this big milestone. [name_f]Baby[/name_f] will grow into whatever name we choose and it’ll be great :slightly_smiling_face:

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