(Pictured is Ricardo before his accident, I didn’t feel comfortable using someone who was actually disabled as a picture, but I wanted to show what he looked like before anyway. Tw for paralysis and seizures, uncensored drug use. Actually, the whole thing might be depressing, sorry for that I tried to be sensitive.)
Ricardo Isaiah Raigoza (19) is Brisa’s younger brother, who is now paralyzed from the waist down, due to a diving incident in the late summer of 2021. Ricardo was extremely popular in highschool before his accident, and was admittedly a bit of a player. He got with dozens of girls and guys not caring who he slept with. Some of his exes who were particularly spiteful say he got just deserts, but most just feel sad and shocked that it happened this way.
Ricardo was never a bad person, he was just impulsive, and didn’t know the right way to fill the hole inside him that never seemed to be filled. He turned into a bit of a nymphomaniac, and just wanted to be with someone most nights, because it filled the emptiness inside of him. He didn’t know where this emptiness came from, it wasn’t like his parents were abusive or anything in life was particularly hard, it was just always a feeling he had inside himself. So he tried to fill the emptiness with drugs and sex, but he never felt completely satisfied.
One day, in the summer, Ricardo was at the Raigoza family pool by himself, and he was jumping off the diving board to practice his dives, only problem was, he was drunk. He didn’t see the danger in this, as he had been feeling particularly empty that day, and didn’t have much motivation to think about his actions. When he dived off the board, he had been unable to get back up out of the water, having trouble due to his intoxication. He was trying to swim to the surface, but he kept getting pulled down.
Brisa, his sister, was going outside with a friend of hers to swim in the pool. When they got there, they saw Ricardo at the bottom of the pool] and he was barely breathing. While her friend was frozen and lost as what to do, Brisa immediately jumped in and went to save her little brother. She pulled him to surface, having been a life guard she knew what to do. She pulled Ricardo out, and tried to resuscitation. Her friend had called 911, but the lack of oxygen had gotten to Ricardo and he started to seize. The paramedics came a few minutes later, but Ricardo was already damaged pretty badly.
They drove to the hospital, and Ricardo was pronounced dead several times on the way before the hospital was able to get him breathing, but he was in a coma. He woke up several months later, but he wasn’t able to talk or move anything besides being able to blink on command. The hospital seemed Ricardo nonfunctioning, but his family and friends knew he was still there somewhere.
Brisa felt horrible, she had a lot of survivor’s guilt. She felt if she had gotten there sooner, then she might have been able to save him from being paralyzed. Brisa and Ricardo’s parents blamed themselves as well, for not noticing Ricardo was struggling with an addiction before he did something horrible and almost lost his life.
Now, almost 2 years later, Ricardo has gained movement in his fingertips, and is able to use the text to speech program his parents got him. It’s still a work in progress, but with his physical therapist’s Florence’s help, Ricardo is getting stronger every day.
Ricardo feels very regretful towards the life he lived before. He wishes he had been more careful, and had gotten help before the accident. Brisa tries her best to be supportive, as well as his best friend from highschool – most of his friends stopped talking to him after the accident, but his best friend always stuck through – but it hurts them to see Ricardo in this position. The family is trying their best to help Ricardo and support him, but it’s hard. They are working on it tho.