I’m in [name_m]America[/name_m] where we just assign any and all names to babies. 
My last name is often mistaken as a first name: pronunciation is [name_f]Emmy[/name_f].
Sean’s not my style name but yes, I understand the out there-ness. I do believe I’m leaning toward [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m] but I have to meet him first before I officially decide. Thank you for your input!