tw: eating disorder
Matilda " Tilde " Suvi Jorgensen (26) is Alex’s older sister and Seb’s girlfriend. Tilde grew up being told by practically everyone that she had a charmed life - loving parents, natural beauty, a natural talent for writing - and nothing to complain about, however this emphasis on perfection led to her developing orthorexia by the time she was only fifteen. This emphasis on ‘pure’ eating stemmed from Tilde becoming terrified of failure, and food was the one thing she felt she could control successfully. She was merely considered fussy by her family, and it was only once she became even more restricted in her diet - coming to eat smaller and smaller portions - that her mother began to suspect something else was going on, resulting in a doctor’s appointment that finally led to Tilde’s diagnosis and her parents coming to see the full extent of her eating disorder. Tilde was always a little more distant from her parents than Alex, as she was left to her own devices more thanks to how naturally friendly and at ease she tends to be, which unfortunately meant until her diagnosis, she was less likely to confide in them about her personal problems. This thankfully changed after her ED was discovered, and she’s especially close with her mother, who’s always been the person she turns to first in a crisis, be it a friend group conflict or just anxieties she’s enduring.
Due to their unofficial rivalry, Tilde tended to keep Alex out of her personal business - instead confiding in close friends, one of whom she considers a sister in all but blood - and it led to misunderstandings that created further distance between them until they’d both grown up more. Tilde’s approach to life still puts others first at the expense of her own problems, something Seb and her best friend try to move her away from; as while they appreciate her caring, they don’t want her to neglect her own mental healrh for the sake of others. Ironically, Tilde never felt the same envy towards her brother as she knows academics are completely not for her and never will be; but she also acknowledges people praising her appearance supplemented what could have arisen had she not received so many compliments about another aspect of herself.
Now working as a music journalist, thanks to her surprising love of symphonic metal - which is very prevalent in Finland, Tilde does some modelling on the side; she’s applying for a long distance contract so she can move closer to Seb while continuing to work for the same publication, just reporting on the Icelandic music scene for the parent company that covers all of Scandinavia. Fundamentally, Seb is someone Tilde feels wholly comfortable around and embraced by, having been open with him about her past struggles and feelings she should always remain positive no matter what. She initially felt guilty doing this thanks to how his parents were utterly awful, but Seb assured her she didn’t have to diminish her own trauma just because his started at an earlier point in life. The subject of children has become increasingly prevalent as things are much more serious between them as a couple now, but Tilde’s always mindful of Margaret and Emil, as she doesn’t want to interfere with their family or seem like she’s got big expectations for Seb’s future with her. Contrast to assumptions, she has a very strong friendship with Margaret, and looks after the children whenever she’s visiting - partially so it gives Seb more time with his other female partner, while allowing time for Emil to get to know Tilde, as they share a common love of music.
Although the distance means they haven’t met in person much, Chaoxiang has reached out to Tilde before when discussing how to further convince Alex to pursue what makes him happy - as she firmly did this. She knows her brothers’ boyfriend worries a lot about seeming imposing or like he’s trying to tell him what to do, and - with her upfront sensibilities regarding her loved one’s - Tilde is always assuring him he’s not interfering, just showing his care in the best way. Thanks to the interlinks, Tilde does know a little of Cloud as well, but they’re more names that crop up in conversations due to Ling having quite the reputation at Margaret’s work.
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