Create a family with a twist:))

[mynameis1]

I personally love these games, but I have a hard time joining them because I have a very specific way I need to keep track of them and it takes a while to get it done so I can play. I decided to make my own, join if you like. The original idea is from lindseylloyd053299 I’m pretty sure, but I wanted to make a game that I can keep track of from the beginning.

If you don’t know the rules, I will make a character, and you will make a character related to that character. It can be a friend, a family member, an acquaintance, anything. I love these games and I just wanted to start my own forum.

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Tw: drug addicts (mentioned)
Description: Oskar Felix Veverka (31) is a man who has dealt with a lot in his life, seeing as he is an ex-convict and someone who has seen his fair share of crime beginning when he was only a small child. How he got in jail began when he was 13, stealing from people and quickly learning the hustle of the streets. His mother and him had a rocky relationship from the start, seeing as she was a drug addict who always put her habit before her 4 children.

Oskar and his family are of Czech origin, growing up in Czechoslovakia and moving to the states when he was 15. He quickly got into the gangs and street life of Orlando, Florida, and was caught when he was 18 stealing. He spent 12 years in prison, getting out a year ago and is still on probation. He now lives with his brother but their situation is a bit complicated, because his brother and girlfriend are about to have a baby. Oskar’s brother and his girlfriend made it clear that if he was going to continue to live with them he had to stay sober, and not commit any crimes for the sake of their child. Oskar agreed, wanting to put that life behind him. He hopes to meet his nephew, and has been helping out with plans, having been clean since he left prison.

@CherryBomb50
@kitkatcookie

Anyone else you can think of these are the people I see the most often in the forums so I tagged you too because I love your characters. Only join if you want ofc.

[Lindseylloyd052399]

[name_f]Isabella[/name_f] [name_u]Marie[/name_u] Torres (27) is Oskar’s childhood friend who stood by him through thick and thin. She grew up in the same neighborhood in Czechoslovakia and moved to the United States around the same time as [name_m]Oskar[/name_m]. Isabella’s family and Oskar’s family became close, and their bond only strengthened as they faced similar challenges together.

[name_f]Isabella[/name_f] witnessed the struggles [name_m]Oskar[/name_m] faced and the path he took, but she always believed in his potential for change. She was there to support him during his time in prison, exchanging letters and visiting whenever she could. Isabella’s unwavering friendship and understanding became a source of solace for [name_m]Oskar[/name_m], providing him with hope and motivation to turn his life around.

Now, as [name_m]Oskar[/name_m] embraces his fresh start, [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] continues to be a pillar of support. She encourages him to stay on the right path, offering guidance and empathy whenever he needs it. [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] recognizes the significance of Oskar’s relationship with his brother and his growing family, and she actively supports his efforts to rebuild those connections.

[name_f]Isabella[/name_f], a compassionate and resilient individual, has been instrumental in Oskar’s journey of redemption. She envisions a brighter future for him and stands by his side as he works toward becoming the person he aspires to be.

[mynameis1]

Jackal [name_u]Reese[/name_u] Veverka (27) is Oskar’s younger brother, friend of [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] and soon to be father. While he’s never been to prison, Jackal has had problems in the past. When he was younger he went through a lot of struggle as he suffered from problems with alcohol and binge drinking. He has cut back on drinking a bit, but his girlfriend tells him he wishes he would stop drinking altogether when the baby is born. He agreed, but he doesn’t know for sure if he’s willing to stop drinking forever. He secretly drinks heavily in private, which not even his brother knows he does, but he suspects.

Jackal works at the local bank as the accountant, having always liked math and finances. He was always a genius in mathematics, wanting to become a mathematician or engineer but his parents always told him he would never be able to because “you’re our child, and the Veverka family is not successful.” This gave Jackal a bit of hesitation to ever fulfill his goal but his girlfriend has been pushing him to maybe get back into school.

[Lindseylloyd052399]

[name_f]Emily[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_m]Thompson[/name_m] (25) is Jackal’s girlfriend, who has been a constant source of support and encouragement in his life. They met during their college years, where they bonded over their shared love for mathematics and numbers.

[name_f]Emily[/name_f] recognizes Jackal’s incredible talent in mathematics and believes in his potential to achieve great things. She has always admired his intellectual prowess and has been pushing him to pursue his dreams of becoming a mathematician or engineer. [name_f]Emily[/name_f] encourages Jackal to defy the negative beliefs instilled by his parents and follow his passion wholeheartedly.

Despite Jackal’s struggles with alcohol in the past, [name_f]Emily[/name_f] has been a steadfast partner, helping him navigate through his challenges. She has witnessed his dedication to cutting back on drinking, but she worries about the toll it may take on their future as parents. [name_f]Emily[/name_f] understands the importance of a stable and nurturing environment for their upcoming child and wants Jackal to consider quitting drinking altogether.

While [name_f]Emily[/name_f] is aware that Jackal still drinks secretly, she hopes that he will eventually find the strength to overcome his addiction for the well-being of their family. She continues to provide him with love, patience, and understanding, all while gently pushing him to seek professional help and consider returning to school to pursue his passion in mathematics.

[name_f]Emily[/name_f] believes in Jackal’s abilities and sees the potential for a bright future for him, both academically and as a dedicated father. She remains a constant source of inspiration and support, encouraging him to overcome his doubts and strive for success.

They cannot wait to meet their baby boy!

[MissMorland]

tw: depression

[name_f]Lena[/name_f] [name_f]Maris[/name_f] [name_u]Palmer[/name_u] (25) is the younger sister of [name_m]Oskar[/name_m] and Jackal and the older sister to their other brother. She was nine when they moved to the States. [name_f]Lena[/name_f] doesn’t have the best relationship with [name_m]Oskar[/name_m], but that’s because she was twelve when he went to jail. Now she lives in [name_u]New[/name_u] [name_u]York[/name_u] but calls both her brothers and hopes to visit soon. [name_f]Lena[/name_f] moved to [name_u]New[/name_u] [name_u]York[/name_u] after getting married three years ago. She brought her little brother, then eighteen, along with her. [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and her husband had gotten job offers there, and with a small loan from her in-laws, they got a townhouse. [name_f]Lena[/name_f] felt her brother, starting to get involved with the wrong people, would do better elsewhere, maybe even go to college, and was so glad her husband agreed to bring him along.

[name_f]Lena[/name_f] is excited to become an aunt and plans to visit when the baby comes. [name_f]Lena[/name_f] has a child who just turned one, and he’s the light of her life. She and her husband are thinking about having more children, but that’ll be a few years yet. [name_f]Lena[/name_f] works as a graphic designer and enjoys her job. She gets to work from home most days which gives her plenty of time to spend with her baby. They have a babysitter for the times when [name_f]Lena[/name_f], her brother, and her husband are all out of the house.

[name_f]Lena[/name_f] dealt with a lot of depression in her teens. The kids at school bullied her for her accent and for having a brother in jail, her mom paid her no attention, and Jackal was dealing with problems of his own. She was on her own most of the time and tried to deal with the depression as best she could with articles online. Her husband transferred to her high school when she was sixteen. She didn’t like him because he teased her about getting a ninety on a test that he got a hundred on. So began a fierce rivalry for the rest of high school. . .and a budding romance. They went to prom together and then college – [name_f]Lena[/name_f] on a scholarship – where he proposed in their last year. College was where [name_f]Lena[/name_f] finally got the help she needed. She went to therapy for her depression, and her mental health is much better now.

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[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Rodriguez[/name_m] (26) is Lena’s husband and a significant source of stability and love in her life. They met during their high school years, where a rivalry eventually transformed into a deep connection and a blossoming romance.

[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] transferred to Lena’s high school, initially teasing her about a test score difference. However, as they spent more time together, their bond grew stronger. They supported each other through their personal challenges, and eventually, their relationship flourished. They attended prom together and continued their journey as a couple into college.

Lena’s struggle with depression during her teens was a difficult period in her life, but [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] stood by her side, offering unwavering support. He witnessed the impact of bullying and the absence of attention from Lena’s mother, and he became a pillar of strength for her. Together, they navigated the highs and lows of college, where [name_f]Lena[/name_f] finally sought therapy and began her journey towards better mental health.

As Lena’s depression improved, their love deepened, and they decided to take the next step in their relationship. In their last year of college, [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] proposed to [name_f]Lena[/name_f], marking the beginning of their life together as a married couple.

Now settled in [name_u]New[/name_u] [name_u]York[/name_u], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] are enjoying their roles as parents to their one-year-old child. [name_f]Lena[/name_f], working as a graphic designer, appreciates the flexibility of her job, allowing her to spend quality time with their baby. They have a reliable babysitter to help care for their child when both [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] are away from home.

Ethan’s unwavering support and love have played a vital role in Lena’s journey of healing and finding happiness. Together, they create a nurturing environment for their family, cherishing the milestones they achieve and looking forward to a future filled with love and possibility.

[kitkatcookie]

mw: casual references to smoking pot

Valentin " Van " Henry Veverka (21) is the younger brother-in-law of Ethan and the baby of his siblings. He’s what Lena refers to as a ‘natural born cynic’, being distinguished by his wry sense of humour and implementation of sarcasm whenever he feels like it, regardless of the time or moment. As the people he lives with, Lena and Ethan are most accustomed to Van’s nature, partly due to how their open affection for one another sparks his running commentary about romance [something he’s never been too interested in himself, although he’s comfortable with his demisexuality]. Van mostly operates on a spectrum of humour best suited to the pessimistic ways of Gen Z, however it never diminishes the sincere love he has for his family, even if he’s not the most straightforward or open about expressing this.

Having only been 5 when the family left the newly formed Czech Republic, Van wonders a lot about the place he never knew all that well. Throughout school and now college, he’s done all in his power to connect with his heritage, but sometimes can’t help feel it’s not enough. He’d love to visit there when he’s financially able, but pipe dreams aren’t his thing, a product of his upbringing. Right now he’s focused on obtaining his degree in visual communication, and being the best uncle possible: which of course means his siblings’ children shall grow to love self-deprecating humour and snark.

Truthfully, he was the most let down by their mother, having a huge amount of love for her while young, and although by no means does he hate her, Van can’t just forget everything he was exposed to, and how he ultimately credits his sister as the person he feels closest to and most grateful for. Showing his vulnerability concerns him, as he doesn’t like the idea of burdening his siblings, who’s own complexities he’s very much aware of. Van’s closest confidant is his best friend, who he met when they were both 14, and they’ve maintained this bond even when he moved. Post graduation he hopes for them to live together, where they might get a pet snake or bearded dragon and enjoy true crime documentaries, stick and poke tattoos, as well as the occasional joint, however Van doesn’t want Lena to feel unsupported when he does fly the nest.

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[name_f]Maya[/name_f] [name_f]Elise[/name_f] [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] (22) is Van’s best friend and confidant, who has been a constant presence in his life since they met at the age of 14. Despite not being related by blood, their bond is unbreakable, and they have become like family to each other.

[name_f]Maya[/name_f] is someone [name_u]Van[/name_u] can always rely on, and their shared sense of humor and appreciation for sarcasm have solidified their friendship over the years. They find solace in their wry outlook on life and often engage in banter and running commentaries about various subjects, including romance and the complexities of the world.

Like [name_u]Van[/name_u], [name_f]Maya[/name_f] is also a fan of dark humor, true crime documentaries, stick and poke tattoos, and the occasional joint. They share similar interests and enjoy spending time together, exploring their passions and engaging in deep conversations.

As [name_u]Van[/name_u] pursues his degree in visual communication, [name_f]Maya[/name_f] has been a constant pillar of support, encouraging his creative pursuits and being there for him during challenging times. They have been through thick and thin together, offering each other a safe space to express vulnerabilities and fears.

Post-graduation, [name_u]Van[/name_u] envisions living together with [name_f]Maya[/name_f], where they can further deepen their bond. They dream of creating a cozy home filled with laughter, pet snakes or a bearded dragon, and shared interests. Despite their plans, [name_u]Van[/name_u] is conscious of not wanting [name_f]Lena[/name_f] to feel unsupported, and he remains considerate of his sister’s needs and emotions.

Maya’s presence in Van’s life is a testament to the chosen family they have created. Their friendship provides strength, understanding, and an unwavering support system as they navigate the complexities of adulthood and continue to grow together.

[kitkatcookie]

[name_m]Fintan[/name_m] " [name_m]Toro[/name_m] " [name_u]Palmer[/name_u] Veverka-Rodriguez (1) is Van’s nephew who’s met [name_f]Maya[/name_f] on numerous occasions, given her frequency at his home which is shared by his sister and brother-in-law. A happy-go-lucky child, Toro’s the polar opposite of a perfect sarcasm student, not that it diminishes how [name_u]Van[/name_u] showers him with affection and attention whenever they’re together. He absolutely is catching on to how cute he is, and [name_m]Toro[/name_m] loves nothing more than cuddles with his mom and dad, who of course oblige without hesitation.

With a nickname derived from his first name - his parents decided on a totally new direction for their son, but Toro’s meaning was too perfect to miss up an opportunity - the little boy’s middle is in honour of his mom’s working name. She wanted to keep as low-key as she could in the industry, and so choosing [name_u]Palmer[/name_u] to help avoid immediate bother from entitled clients aided in this. It just so happens it perfectly suits her son as well! While a little uncertain about babysitters at first, Toro’s warmed to his regular, although nothing quite beats family for him at the moment.

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@MissMorland just wanted to clear up surname discrepancies, i hope this works!

[Lindseylloyd052399]

[name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] [name_m]Thompson[/name_m] (24) is Toro’s regular babysitter and a beloved figure in his life. Although not related by blood, their bond is nurtured through their interactions and the love and care [name_f]Violet[/name_f] provides to [name_m]Toro[/name_m] when his parents are away.

[name_f]Violet[/name_f] has been entrusted with Toro’s well-being and safety, and she takes her role as his babysitter seriously. She is warm, attentive, and patient, creating a nurturing environment that allows [name_m]Toro[/name_m] to feel comfortable and secure in her presence.

Initially, [name_m]Toro[/name_m] was a bit uncertain about having a babysitter, as many children are. However, over time, Violet’s gentle and caring nature won him over, and he now looks forward to spending time with her. Whether it’s engaging in imaginative play, reading stories, or going on small adventures, [name_f]Violet[/name_f] ensures Toro’s happiness and enjoyment during their time together.

Violet’s dedication to her role extends beyond mere babysitting. She takes the time to understand Toro’s preferences, interests, and needs, adapting her care accordingly. She cherishes the opportunity to witness Toro’s growth and development, and she actively fosters a supportive and loving relationship with him.

Toro’s parents hold great trust in [name_f]Violet[/name_f], appreciating her commitment to providing a safe and nurturing environment for their son. They value her presence in Toro’s life and recognize the positive impact she has on his well-being.

[name_f]Violet[/name_f], with her genuine care and affection for [name_m]Toro[/name_m], plays an important role in his early childhood experiences. She is a valued member of his extended family, someone who [name_m]Toro[/name_m] feels comfortable with and looks up to as a trusted caregiver and friend.

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[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] [name_u]Gray[/name_u] [name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (26) is Violet’s long-time boyfriend.

[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] is a compassionate and easygoing individual with a laid-back demeanour. He possesses a great sense of humour and is known for his quick wit, often making [name_f]Violet[/name_f] laugh with his clever remarks. [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] is intelligent and analytical, utilizing his problem-solving skills to excel in his career as a software engineer. He has a passion for technology and enjoys discussing the latest innovations and advancements in the field. While [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] is driven and ambitious, he also values work-life balance and believes in making time for his personal relationships and hobbies.

[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] is an avid gamer and enjoys playing a variety of video games in his spare time. He appreciates both single-player immersive experiences and multiplayer games that he can enjoy with friends. [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] also has a creative side and dabbles in graphic design, often creating digital art pieces as a way to relax and express himself. He loves exploring new music and attending live concerts, with a particular fondness for indie rock bands. [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] is also an outdoor enthusiast and enjoys hiking, camping, and going on scenic nature walks.

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[name_f]Ava[/name_f] [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] [name_u]Reynolds[/name_u] (24) is Ethan’s best friend since childhood, and their bond is akin to that of siblings. While not related by blood, they have been inseparable since their early school days and have always been there for each other through thick and thin.

[name_f]Ava[/name_f] is a free-spirited and creative individual with a vibrant personality. She has a knack for photography and often captures the world around her through her lens. Ava’s passion for art extends beyond photography, as she also enjoys painting and experimenting with different artistic mediums. Her creativity and unique perspective on life often inspire [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] and fuel their shared adventures.

Both [name_f]Ava[/name_f] and [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] share a love for music, and they often attend concerts and music festivals together, seeking out new and emerging artists. They have a playlist of cherished songs that hold special memories from their friendship, and they enjoy creating mixtapes for each other.

[name_f]Ava[/name_f] has a warm and nurturing nature, and her friends often seek solace in her compassionate presence. She values authenticity and encourages those around her to embrace their true selves. [name_f]Ava[/name_f] has a deep appreciation for nature and enjoys spending time outdoors, going on hikes, and immersing herself in the beauty of the world.

[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] and Ava’s friendship is built on a strong foundation of trust and understanding. They share countless inside jokes, engage in intellectual discussions, and support each other’s dreams and aspirations. Ava’s presence in Ethan’s life brings joy and companionship, making their bond an essential pillar of their individual growth and happiness.

[CherryBomb50]

[name_f]Bora[/name_f] [name_f]Margita[/name_f] [name_m]Tonek[/name_m] (24) is Ava’s mutual friend, a sister of [name_f]Alzbeta[/name_f] [name_f]Marketa[/name_f] [name_m]Tonek[/name_m], who prefers to be called [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] [name_u]Marie[/name_u] Torres. [name_f]Bora[/name_f] doesn’t mind her sister being like this but wants her to enjoy her culture too without society pressure to have a “proper enough [name_f]English[/name_f] name.” [name_f]Bora[/name_f] is used to being called “bore/boring” and while she does tend to clap back at that, she doesn’t let it ruin her spirit. By no means is she perfect though; she hates big changes, sometimes doesn’t have a filter, and loses things all the time. When she’s at fault, she owns up, even if it’s super embarrassing and makes her look bad. She wants to help [name_f]Alzbeta[/name_f] stop worrying about the pressure of being too perfect, but never puts [name_f]Alzbeta[/name_f] at fault for the pressure and doesn’t blame her if she doesn’t “fix herself fast enough”.

[name_f]Bora[/name_f] herself heard those words from a former [name_f]English[/name_f] teacher at school during childhood due to [name_f]English[/name_f] not being her first language and her teacher being insensitive. It made her uncomfortable and she vowed to never make anyone feel that way. With Alzbeta’s past in prison pen palling, [name_f]Bora[/name_f] feels her older sister is doing great with building confidence. She’s not putting a timetable but she hopes [name_f]Alzbeta[/name_f] will one day feel her own confidence on herself. [name_f]Bora[/name_f] and [name_f]Ava[/name_f] love photography and it’s been something [name_f]Bora[/name_f] loves to do with [name_f]Alzbeta[/name_f] as well. [name_f]Bora[/name_f] loves to post online some of her photos but plans to stay freelance in photography. One would be surprised to know that [name_f]Bora[/name_f] loves hockey, something she’s very good at. [name_f]Bora[/name_f] is also a coworker for software engineering so she sees [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] all the time. [name_f]Bora[/name_f] gets more and more confident every year but doesn’t see herself as anyone’s idol and she doesn’t like the idea of being perceived as perfect anyway.

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[name_f]Maya[/name_f] [name_f]Sofia[/name_f] Alvarez (26) is Bora’s close friend and confidant, and their bond is akin to that of sisters. While not related by blood, their friendship is built on a foundation of understanding, support, and shared experiences.

[name_f]Maya[/name_f] is a vivacious and free-spirited individual with a zest for life. She embraces her cultural heritage and encourages others, like Bora’s sister [name_f]Alzbeta[/name_f], to embrace their own without succumbing to societal pressures. [name_f]Maya[/name_f] believes in the importance of cultural identity and cherishes the diverse backgrounds that shape individuals.

Having faced insensitive comments herself due to her cultural background, [name_f]Maya[/name_f] empathizes with Bora’s experiences and understands the impact of hurtful words. She supports Bora’s commitment to creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for others, ensuring that no one feels marginalized or belittled.

[name_f]Maya[/name_f] shares Bora’s passion for photography, and they often embark on photo-taking adventures together. They appreciate the artistry and the ability to capture moments and emotions through their lenses. [name_f]Maya[/name_f], like [name_f]Bora[/name_f], plans to stay freelance in photography, cherishing the freedom it provides to explore her creativity.

Outside of photography, [name_f]Maya[/name_f] shares Bora’s love for hockey and often joins her in watching games or participating in friendly matches. She admires Bora’s skill and dedication to the sport, finding joy in their shared enthusiasm for the game.

Maya’s presence in Bora’s life brings an added layer of joy, acceptance, and support. They uplift each other, celebrate their individuality, and encourage personal growth. [name_f]Maya[/name_f] understands that perfection is an unrealistic standard and appreciates Bora’s authenticity and continual journey of self-improvement. Their friendship is a constant reminder that true connections are built on understanding, empathy, and shared values.

[ElisabethJulie]

[name_f]Isabella[/name_f] “Bella” [name_f]Diana[/name_f] Martinez (28) is Maya’s maternal cousin and works as a social justice advocate.

[name_f]Bella[/name_f] is a passionate and resilient advocate for social justice causes. She possesses a strong sense of empathy and a deep desire to make a positive impact in the world. [name_f]Bella[/name_f] is known for her unwavering dedication to standing up against injustices and promoting equality. She is compassionate, patient, and has a talent for actively listening to others and providing support. Bella’s approach to life is rooted in kindness and understanding, and she embraces her cultural heritage as a source of strength and empowerment.

[name_f]Bella[/name_f] is deeply involved in social justice work, actively participating in community initiatives, advocating for marginalized communities, and promoting inclusivity. She attends rallies and protests, contributes to organizations, and engages in meaningful conversations to raise awareness about important issues. [name_f]Bella[/name_f] also finds solace in creative outlets such as painting and writing, using art as a means to express her emotions and inspire change. She enjoys exploring diverse cuisines and traditions, appreciating the richness of different cultures.

[name_f]Isabella[/name_f] and [name_f]Maya[/name_f] share a special bond as cousins. They have grown up together and developed a strong connection based on their shared values and experiences. [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] admires Maya’s vivacious spirit and free-spirited nature, and she supports Maya’s passion for embracing her cultural heritage. They celebrate their shared background and work together to promote inclusivity and combat stereotypes. [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] is a source of inspiration and guidance for [name_f]Maya[/name_f], encouraging her to use her photography skills as a powerful tool for storytelling and social change. They often have deep conversations about social justice issues and collaborate on projects that aim to create a more equitable and accepting society. Isabella’s unwavering support and understanding provide [name_f]Maya[/name_f] with a sense of comfort and empowerment, strengthening their bond as sisters at heart.

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[name_m]Santiago[/name_m] “Santi” [name_m]Alejandro[/name_m] [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] (30) is Bella’s close friend and ally in their shared journey as social justice advocates. While not related by blood, their bond is like that of chosen family, rooted in their shared passion for creating a more just and equitable world.

[name_m]Santi[/name_m] is a dedicated and passionate advocate who uses his voice and platform to raise awareness about social justice issues. He is driven by a deep desire to make a meaningful impact and create positive change in his community. Santi’s charisma and ability to connect with others enable him to inspire and mobilize individuals to take action.

With a background in law, [name_m]Santi[/name_m] provides legal support and guidance to marginalized communities, helping them navigate complex systems and fight for their rights. He believes in the power of education and actively conducts workshops and seminars to empower individuals with knowledge about their rights and the tools to advocate for themselves.

[name_m]Santi[/name_m] and [name_f]Bella[/name_f] often collaborate on various social justice projects, organizing events, and engaging in advocacy campaigns. They complement each other’s strengths, offering unwavering support and understanding as they work together towards their shared goals.

Outside of their advocacy work, [name_m]Santi[/name_m] is a compassionate and empathetic individual. He enjoys connecting with people on a personal level, listening to their stories, and providing support whenever needed. Santi’s warm and friendly nature creates a safe space for those around him, fostering a sense of community and togetherness.

[name_f]Bella[/name_f] and Santi’s friendship is grounded in shared values, mutual respect, and a common drive for social change. They uplift each other, collaborate on initiatives, and draw strength from their bond as they work tirelessly towards a more inclusive and equitable future.

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[name_f]Ekaterina[/name_f] (Granya or Katya) Smirnov (92) is the grandmother of [name_m]Santi[/name_m] [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] and the matriarch of the Smirnov family.

As a child growing up in the second world war in [name_f]Russia[/name_f], [name_f]Katya[/name_f] has always been a tough, independent woman. If you get on her bad side she is a terrible enemy but she has a hidden soft spot for her friends and family. [name_f]Katya[/name_f] moved to the [name_u]West[/name_u] in the 1990’s with her husband and children when the Soviet Union collapsed in search of a better life. After living it tough as an immigrant for a few years, [name_f]Katya[/name_f] and her husband both managed to score good jobs and provide for their children.
When she was a young girl, Granya’s family was torn apart when her parents were sent to a gulag labour camp during WII and in fear of her family being separated again, [name_f]Katya[/name_f] is extremely protective over her children and grandchildren. She always insists that they spend time together incase and hosts many family gatherings at her house.
When Granya’s daughter married Santi’s father, the Smirnov and [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] families were brought together. Granya got along surprisingly well with Santi’s father’s parents and the three often play shuffle board together at the local senior’s centre as well as knit jumpers for their many grandchildren and great-grand children on the way.
While she does not dare to say it aloud, [name_m]Santi[/name_m] is Katya’s favourite grandchild. She is always teasing [name_m]Santi[/name_m] to hurry up and marry [name_f]Bella[/name_f]. Their bond was sealed when [name_m]Santi[/name_m] was 3 and coined his grandmother, “Granya” after mispronouncing Grandma [name_f]Katya[/name_f]. She would often mind [name_m]Santi[/name_m] when he was a child and they would go to hip-hop dance lessons together. Despite being an old duck, [name_f]Katya[/name_f] is amazing at hip-hop, which [name_m]Santi[/name_m] introduced to her when he had a hip-hop themed birthday party and insisted that he and [name_f]Katya[/name_f] do a special routine for the guests. In return for introducing her to hip-hop, [name_f]Katya[/name_f] taught [name_m]Santi[/name_m] how to speak Russian and he is the only [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] grandchild to learn it.
She has since joined a hip-hop group and is the eldest member.

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[name_u]Lauren[/name_u] [name_f]Amanda[/name_f] [Penny] [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] (35) is Ekaterina’s granddaughter-in-law, who’s expecting her first great-grandchild. While it saddens [name_f]Ekaterina[/name_f] that there’s still no sparks between [name_m]Santi[/name_m] and [name_f]Bella[/name_f] - they are her OTP after all - Lauren’s pregnancy has been a great source of joy for her, only outdone by the couple themselves ultimately [although its shared by other family members]. It was semi-planned by the couple: they were ready to have children, but hadn’t officially made a plan at the time they learned they were expecting, not that it diminished how they threw themselves into readying for their child’s arrival. Given all the questions they knew would come, they’ve opted against a gender reveal and are instead wanting to keep things a surprise for everyone to enjoy equally!

When [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] became involved with her now-husband, the couple were in college and she had a party girl reputation, something that did spark some apprehension in his parents. It wasn’t that they saw her as casting some spell on their son - he partied hard enough without anyone else’s involvement - but [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and he combined could have turned into madness. To their relief, dating calmed down both of them. There didn’t seem any point pursuing a romance if they were recovering from a whole night going wild, and so [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and he became much more standard in how they spent their social time: enjoying private dates or just chilling with their friends. Nowadays, [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] jokes about how no-one could tell what her past was like. She’s a financial manager for a charity focused on helping support immigrants and asylum seekers, who’s known for being hyper organised and thorough in how she approaches every task.

In contrast to the [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] clan, Lauren’s family were never that close. There was no abuse or neglect in her upbringing, there’s just been a coolness between them and her, their only child. She admits to her husband and close friends it’s hard figuring out how she feels about them nowadays, acknowledging they provided for her and helped her get through college, however there was never any emotional bond formed beyond a surface level. [name_m]Even[/name_m] her pregnancy has only really won polite interest, distant as ever, and Lauren’s made the decision her child - and any others she might have - will be kept at a certain arms length from her parents, as she doesn’t want them facing the same guilt based questions she often mused throughout her life, at times wondering if she somehow instigated this detachment.

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[name_f]Sophia[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] (nb) is the baby daughter of [name_u]Lauren[/name_u]. [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] came into the world on a beautiful sunny morning, bringing immense joy and excitement to her parents, [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and her husband. The delivery was smooth, and despite the anticipation of meeting their baby, [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and her husband managed to stay calm throughout the process.

Surrounded by a supportive medical team and their loved ones, [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and her husband eagerly awaited their daughter’s arrival. Lauren’s labor progressed steadily, and as each moment passed, their anticipation grew. Finally, after a few hours of intense contractions, [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] made her grand entrance into the world, her cry filling the delivery room with a sweet melody.

In that moment, [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and her husband felt an overwhelming rush of love as they held their precious baby girl for the first time. They marveled at her tiny fingers and delicate features, completely captivated by her presence. The bond between parents and child was instantly formed, a connection that would only grow stronger with time.

[name_f]Sophia[/name_f] Grace’s birth became a cherished moment in the [name_m]Ramirez[/name_m] family, bringing them closer together and strengthening their shared joy. Although [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] had chosen to keep the gender a surprise, the arrival of their daughter brought immense happiness to everyone, erasing any need for a gender reveal celebration.

As [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] grew, she would be surrounded by a loving and supportive family, including her great-grandmother [name_f]Ekaterina[/name_f], who would shower her with love and affection. With each passing day, Sophia’s presence would serve as a reminder of the beautiful new chapter in [name_u]Lauren[/name_u] and her husband’s lives, filling their hearts with a love they never thought possible.

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time note: we’re jumping back 5 months. [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] was born in [name_u]November[/name_u] 2023

tw: miscarriage

[name_f]Olive[/name_f] [name_f]Petrina[/name_f] Coolhan (34) is Lauren’s friend and attendee of the same local pregnancy group which she signed up to. In contrast to the Ramirezs’, Olives’ a soon-to-be single mother, a choice on her behalf. The donour is anonymous by choice and Olive’s already taken preparation classes for the day she’ll have to explain this to her unborn child. It isn’t that she wanted to deny them a father figure, merely the first match she received was someone who wanted their identity withheld, and motherhood’s so important to [name_f]Olive[/name_f], she consented to this, not wanting to push someone into discomfort solely for her own sakes. Based on the life she’s lived, it’s very important for [name_f]Olive[/name_f] that boundaries and empathy are upheld, as unfortunately, it’s not something she’s always found herself being afforded, even in situations people would assume breed kindness.

At 27, [name_f]Olive[/name_f] became pregnant with her then boyfriend’s child, however mere weeks after learning they were expecting, she suffered a miscarriage. On top of her own traumatic experience, she had to handle the weight of her boyfriends’ reaction, with him simultaneously shutting her out and then venting endlessly at her about their loss. He totally disengaged from considering her feelings, and even as she tried to resume some normality, he lashed out at her, accusing her of not caring. This was the final straw for [name_f]Olive[/name_f] and she left their apartment for her parents place, no longer excusing him on account of grief and recognising the toxic cycle they were approaching.

It’s taken her several years to feel ready to conceive again, but after getting her current job in the prehistoric creature exhibit at a local museum, getting her own condo and adopting her beloved tabby cat, [name_f]Bessie[/name_f], [name_f]Olive[/name_f] felt it was time to become a mother. During the early stages of pregnancy she was very nervous, but now in her fourth month, she’s mellowed and is wholeheartedly enjoying it. She’s been blessed with an easy time otherwise, the only real downside being her crazy food combo cravings, which have led to her younger sister joking they’re never meeting up for lunch or dinner again. A month into her pregnancy, she heard from her ex - a difficult conversation. He apologised to [name_f]Olive[/name_f] - admitting it was at the suggestion of his therapist - but she hasn’t accepted as she once would solely to appease him. Olive’s admitted to her own counsellor that it would be insincere at this point in time, and all she wants is to focus on preparing for motherhood instead of smoothing every crack from her past.