[name_u]Emory[/name_u] leans slightly masc to me; [name_u]Emery[/name_u] feels solidly neutral.
[name_u]Emory[/name_u] ‘Rory’ works to me
and you very much suit Emory!! (nice badges btw)
I agree with Greyblue that [name_u]Emory[/name_u] leans slightly masc but overall neutral whereas [name_u]Emery[/name_u] is completely neutral. I like both and think they both work for either (or neither) gender.
I’m honestly kind of picky about “stretchy” nicknames but [name_u]Emory[/name_u] “Rory” works as well, and you fit the name!
[name_u]Emory[/name_u] is neutral leaning masculine (which is different to me than masculine leaning neutral)
[name_u]Emery[/name_u] is neutral leaning feminine
[name_u]Rory[/name_u] works for [name_u]Emory[/name_u] but not for [name_u]Emery[/name_u] imo