Expecting our DD2 and third child and finding it so hard to find a name this time around.
With DD1 I knew her name, got others opinions online and then went for it and I do not regret it to bits. It’s an ancient Greek name but cute and easy to pronounce in the UK where we live, many people like it and very unique here.
For DS1 we went with a Spanish name that is very popular as a girl name only in the UK and we love it to bits, only little boy we know with that name in the UK, it suits him and DH is Spanish, which is a lovely way to connect with his culture as well.
For DD3 we thought of going for a Spanish name as well, but I want something unique for the UK and melifluous that will be liked and this is so hard to find, as DH suggests names that are too common and I like something that is not really used much around.
Unfortunately I am the kind of person that is influenced by others’ opinions unless it is a name like DD1’s which I absolutely adore and do not care as much if one/two people dislike it, as I kind of know it is a cute name and many people like it.
At the moment the only name we agree on for DD2 is [name_f]Esmeralda[/name_f] and my intention is to use her full name, as [name_f]Esme[/name_f] is lovely as a nickname but too common for my taste and feel like if [name_f]Esme[/name_f] is what we want to use as her name, then that should be her name and not [name_f]Esmeralda[/name_f].
My fear though is that [name_f]Esmeralda[/name_f] will be seen as an Over the top name, overwrought Disney, a Witch’s name and not cool at all, but old. This is the opinion most people expressed in forums so far and I started having second thoughts and waking up with nightmares. Pregnancy does not help, lol.
Only downside I was seeing initially is that it’s long, 4 syllables with 9 letters, but there are other names that are long and still liked e.g. [name_f]Valentina[/name_f] or [name_f]Penelope[/name_f], names DH rejected. Is it because of Disney movie this is not liked? Or that it does not flow with sm and ld consonants… Is it too frilly and complicated? Wish I could run a survey lol and if 70% of the people liked it, saw it as cool and refreshing, I would go for it But I want to avoid comments like OMG this is hideous and feel I bruise my little girl’s life. I want her to have a cute, unique, amanzing name like her sister.
DH also likes [name_f]Gabriella[/name_f] and although this is nice, in Greek where we have no G, the pronunciation is not good at all, it starts with the letter Gamma and it is an ugly sound, so we do not seem to have other choices at the moment
I suggested [name_f]Ariana[/name_f] which is rather polular but he disliked it…
Wish I can find the right, perfect name for DD3 and that if [name_f]Esmeralda[/name_f] is the choice or not, we will not regret our decision…
Finding a name is so hard this time around …