Sounds like you’ve thought everything through! It’s great that you have firm boundaries towards someone who is so controlling and so volatile. It’s equally fantastic that you have your family firmly in your corner to help reinforce them. Not to mention, of course, that your mum and your siblings will help support you as you adjust to your life with baby boy. You have your mini village. That is a huge blessing. I hope some of the stress you were carrying has been lifted with your clarity and assured direction.
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Whitten has stayed on with you! That’s a good sign for that pick! Let’s see….
Similar to Whitten:
- Whittaker - Whitten is pretty unique! Not sure if this suggestion gets you any closer to what you love, but it’s another name with the opportunity for the cool nickname of “Whit!”
Similar to Zayne:
- Wayne - Wayne to me seems like the more traditional version of Zayne. Well, at least this spelling of Zayne. I suppose Zane without the “y” has been around for a very long time! Point is, Zayne is a trendy name and I think Wayne is very obvious in its similarities and fits in with your initial last names for first names old money type of vibe. Like John Wayne or Bruce Wayne.
Similar to Greyson:
- Macsen - Earlier on you had Macklin which of course shares the same beginning sound and built in “Mac” nickname. It’s a Welsh name meaning “immortal”. It’s grounded and has history, but I feel fits in with more of the modern names that have come onto your list. Side note: the nickname “Grey” for Greyson is very cute!
Others that come to mind:
- Beckett
- Cormac (“Mac” sound/nickname again!)
- Hayes
- Lachlan (gives me Macklin vibes)
- Paxton
- Pierce
- Rhodes
- Stellan
- Sterling
- Sinclair
Edited out names already suggested.