[name_f]Glad[/name_f] to hear that you are setting firm boundaries for yourself and your son <3 It’s hard out there and I completely agree with what you shared in another comment about the patterns in our families of origin sometimes leading us to continue unhealthy relationships in our futures. I hope you have a great support system and if you can access it I highly recommend a therapist or counselor just to have someone to process all of this with. Sending you lots of love and good vibes for your pregnancy and future kiddo!
As far as names goes my favorite is [name_m]Graysen[/name_m]! I also think [name_m]Graham[/name_m] and [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] might fit with your naming style.