thinking about if I ever actually get around to changing my name 
I think I would change it to just abby but if I did find a full name, id consider that, and if I found a full name, I think id like it to be gender neutral! so as the title suggests, what are some gender neutral full names for abby?
tia!
here are some that came to mind!
abilene
abbott
aubrey
Abney
[name_m]Alban[/name_m]
[name_m]Abacus[/name_m]
[name_u]Abril[/name_u]
Amabillis/Amable
[name_u]Bellamy[/name_u]
McNabb
[name_u]Aberdeen[/name_u]
[name_u]Abijah[/name_u] (may be too religious for you due to the meaning, though)
[name_u]Abriel[/name_u]
[name_u]Arbor[/name_u]
[name_u]Alba[/name_u]
[name_u]Auburn[/name_u]
[name_u]Ashby[/name_u]
throwing out some ideas here:
[name_f]Amable[/name_f]
[name_u]Abbott[/name_u]
Abney
[name_m]Abell[/name_m]
Abieta/Abeyta
Abshire
Abbacy
Ambary
Aumbry
Abyss
[name_u]Abilene[/name_u]
aberdeen
abbott
alba
albany
arbel
abba
abel/abelle
arbor
alben
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]! I think [name_u]Auburn[/name_u] might suit you even better, though. 
Perhaps…
[name_m]Abner[/name_m]
[name_u]Sable[/name_u]
[name_u]Gabriel[/name_u]
[name_u]Abriel[/name_u]
[name_u]Darby[/name_u]
Abyss (too dark?)
Abess
Abington
The berries have already given you some good options but here are some more out of the box ones:
Abbink
Baobab
Guaiabero
Oxylabes
Rhabdornis
thank you all!!
im gonna be painstakingly picky because it has to be something I like and I feel could fit me but so far im liking abbott and arbor! also liking amabel but I don’t know if id count that as gender neutral lol
[name_u]Abilene[/name_u]
[name_u]Abbott[/name_u]
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]
Abigaël
Gabriel(e)
Abridged(e)
[name_u]Bellamy[/name_u]
[name_m]Albin[/name_m]
Alban(e)
[name_u]Albany[/name_u]
Albertin(e)
Mackabby
Amab(i)le / Amab(i)lis
[name_u]Abijah[/name_u]
[name_u]Abriel[/name_u]
[name_u]Alba[/name_u]
[name_u]Auburn[/name_u]
[name_m]Alby[/name_m]
[name_u]Ashby[/name_u]
Abington/Abingdon
I like the sound of [name_m]Abiel[/name_m], I’m not sure if it could be considerer gender neutral but it does feel like it for me.
[name_m]Ambrose[/name_m]