Gilbert - love or loathe? šŸ¤”

I personally wouldn’t use the name [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m], it’s not quite my style. However I would love to meet a little [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m]. The [name_u]Anne[/name_u] of [name_u]Green[/name_u] Gables association is precious! [name_m]Gil[/name_m] is a sweet nickname and so is [name_u]Bertie[/name_u].

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I adore [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] soooo much. It’s so sweet and vintage but somehow substantial. I like [name_m]Gilby[/name_m] as a nickname, or just [name_m]Gil[/name_m], although [name_u]Bertie[/name_u] is adorable too.

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Gilbert is a great name! Ppl have heard of it but u hardly ever meet one. [name_u]Love[/name_u] nickname [name_m]Gil[/name_m] and love the [name_u]Anne[/name_u] of [name_u]Green[/name_u] Gables association.

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I’m not a huge fan of it. Probably because where I live there’s a town called [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m], so it doesn’t sound like a baby name to me.

Thanks for this! I didn’t think of [name_m]Gilby[/name_m] as a nickname. So, so sweet! :heart_eyes:

So pleased you love its charm too!!

Hehe - this is completely understandable!

Thank you! Fingers crossed with this one :wink::crossed_fingers:t4::crossed_fingers:t4:

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Thank you for your feedback :pray:t2:
You mentioned something that I’ve got to admit I’m worried about - teasing potential. Could I ask you why you think this name might cause teasing/bullying? Is it the ā€˜Gil’ beginning sound or the ā€˜bert’ ending? I wouldn’t be able to live with myself for choosing a name for our son that would put him at risk of harmful teasing/bullying :worried:

Thank you! I actually quite like [name_m]Reuben[/name_m] but my husband doesn’t :confused: [name_m]Gulliver[/name_m] I find to be quite interesting, rugged and outdoorsy all at once. It was on my long list of names to begin with but I ended up taking it off, but only because I thought that it may be confused with [name_m]Oliver[/name_m]. I didn’t want our son having to say repeatedly, ā€˜No, it’s not [name_m]Oliver[/name_m]. It’s GULLIVER!’

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Loathe

LOL! Message received. I guess I did ask after all!!

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I’m not a fan of [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] at all it’s just nerdy and reminds me of a boy with a runny nose who is just bullied the whole time. I know sounds proper harsh but for me this is a big fat no!
I like the suggestion of [name_u]Griffin[/name_u]!

Suggestions…
[name_u]Stanley[/name_u]
[name_m]Albert[/name_m]
[name_m]Alfred[/name_m]
[name_m]Wilfred[/name_m]
[name_m]Hector[/name_m]
[name_m]Hamish[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m]
[name_m]Jeremy[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Leonard[/name_m]
[name_m]John[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Samuel[/name_m]
[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helped

It’s not either syllable particularly, just the overall kind of dusty, nerdy vibe. When I was in school, most kids didn’t get teased purely because of their name. A cool kid could maybe pull off [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m]. But if you were a shy/nerdy/unusual kid, AND you had an odd name, it immediately became a target. We had a kid named [name_m]Seamus[/name_m] who was mercilessly mocked for his unusual name because he was an unusual kid. It just makes me a bit hesitant now to choose anything too ā€œclunky.ā€

Thank you for your suggestions. You are completely entitled to have your own opinion so don’t worry about being harsh! This is what these forums are all about - voicing our opinions about names.

I noticed you suggested [name_m]Albert[/name_m] … again it baffles me as to why AlBERT is so popular but GilBERT isn’t :woman_shrugging:t4: I really love the nickname [name_m]Gil[/name_m]!!!

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Ahhhh - I see what you mean! Yes, I do think it depends on the child’s personality too. I wonder if poor, awkward [name_m]Seamus[/name_m] would have still been a target for bullying if he was named [name_u]James[/name_u]?

I’m not a fan of [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m]. To me it sounds old-fashioned, but not in the charming ā€œvintageā€ sense. I don’t think it’s a bad name, but it just doesn’t appeal to me personally.

Thank you so much for your positivity! :hugs:

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Thank you :pray:t2: I wish I were as confident as you about using the name. I’m a little worried now about the teasing potential of [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] :confused:

My associations with [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] are [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] and [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u] (composers) and [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] Grape, a movie starring [name_m]Leonardo[/name_m] DeCaprio. It’s not a bad name, but it doesn’t really carry a positive vibe for me. It’s certainly generated a lot of conversation, though! Did you like [name_u]Grady[/name_u] at all? Sorry, this thread is so long it’s hard to find responses.