My question is, do you think it’s ok to honour a family member by using their name as a middle name for your third child when your older children don’t have family middle names? Would this be ok?
I think it is perfectly fine. DD1 has an honor middle, but I don’t plan on giving DD2 one. I don’t see any potential conflict (among family members nor siblings) arising from it.
Why wouldn’t it be okay? Are you asking out of concern for your children or for other relatives?
For my other kids