What are y’all’s thoughts on using names from cultures you’re not part of? I’m talking about distinctive names, Hawaiian names in particular. The only connection I have with [name_m]Hawaii[/name_m] is that I was born there and that I have a Hawaiian middle name. Our–my husband and I–plan has always been to pass on my middle name as a middle name for a child, but I’m leaning towards using Hawaiian names as first names.
Also, names and site suggestions would be appreciated. 
Try http://www.alohafriends.com/names_traditional.html
Typical Hawaiian style names that spring to mind are [name_f]Leilani[/name_f] and [name_m]Malakai[/name_m]
But there is also
[name_f]Makani[/name_f]
Kanui
[name_u]Kalani[/name_u]
[name_f]Nalani[/name_f]
[name_m]Niele[/name_m]
[name_f]Noa[/name_f]
[name_m]Koa[/name_m]
Keilani
[name_f]Noelani[/name_f]
Normally I’d avoid it if it’s a distinctively cultural name, but it sounds like you do actually have a connection to the culture! Being born in [name_m]Hawaii[/name_m] and having a Hawaiian middle name yourself does give you a connection, whether or not you grew up in [name_m]Hawaii[/name_m] or live there now. In your case I’d go for it!
I don’t mind it, and it’s clear you have a connection to the place so I wouldn’t really worry too much about other people’s thoughts. Hawaiian names are so beautiful too, especially their meanings!
I think that if you were born there and your middle name is Hawaiian, I see no problem in passing that down to your child. It would also make a cool connection for you both.
To echo what others have said, your connection to [name_m]Hawaii[/name_m] makes it fine.
I generally think it’s fine to use any names that you love and that feel meaningful to you. I agree too that it sounds like you do have a connection. It might be a bit odd to have numerous children with distinctly Hawaiian names, if neither of you are Hawaiian. But if [name_m]Hawaii[/name_m] is close to your heart even just from visiting or enjoing the culture, I dont see a problem.
I’ve considered [name_f]Leilani[/name_f] myself (having zero connection to [name_m]Hawaii[/name_m]) because I have a sister [name_f]Leila[/name_f], and it is just so beautiful.
Thanks everyone!
I think it’s fine to use names of a culture you’re not necessarily a part of. If you like the sound and meaning of a name, then there shouldn’t be a problem with you using it. [name_m]Just[/name_m] make sure you know the original culture so that you’re not completely oblivious to its original heritage, which you obviously know you want a Hawaiian name.
Suggestions (I basically only know feminine ones, sorry):
[name_f]Nalani[/name_f]
[name_f]Mele[/name_f]
[name_f]Leilani[/name_f]
Melika
[name_f]Kala[/name_f]
Makana
[name_f]Moana[/name_f]
[name_f]Maile[/name_f] (contrary to what this site says, it’s actually pronounced MIE-leh or MIE-lay.)
[name_f]Malia[/name_f]
[name_f]Kalea[/name_f]
[name_f]Elikapeka[/name_f]
[name_u]Kai[/name_u]
Kaipo
Kaimana
Kaleo
You can find more at behindthename.com