He wants to use his mother's name (Pamela) and I cant figure out how to make it work!

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Unless you really love it, I’d put [name_f]Pamela[/name_f] in the middle spot :confused:

Alternatively, any name with [name_u]Mel[/name_u] in it could honour a [name_f]Pamela[/name_f].

[name_f]Melanie[/name_f]
[name_f]Melisande[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Carmela[/name_f]
[name_f]Emelda[/name_f] (bonus, includes an anagram of [name_f]Adele[/name_f]) or [name_f]Imelda[/name_f]

etc

If [name_f]Pamela[/name_f] means [name_f]Honey[/name_f], why not just use [name_f]Honey[/name_f] to honor his mother?
As a longer alternative to [name_f]Bibi[/name_f], I like [name_f]Bibiana[/name_f]. [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] is also quite pretty, maybe [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] [name_f]Pamela[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]?

I would put [name_f]Pamela[/name_f] in the middle spot as well.

I would put [name_f]Pamela[/name_f] or [name_f]Honey[/name_f] in the middle spot (both to honor [name_f]Pamela[/name_f]). [name_f]Dorothy[/name_f] [name_f]Honey[/name_f] R0binette…I love [name_f]Dorothy[/name_f]. [name_f]Love[/name_f].

I love [name_f]Pamela[/name_f]! [name_f]Pam[/name_f], not so much, but the full name is really quite pretty. It’s rare today, but familiar. I say see if it can grow on you.

This might be slightly out-there, but WDYT of using the initials P.A.M. R0binette to get to the nn [name_f]Pam[/name_f]? E.g.:
[name_f]Philippa[/name_f] [name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] R0binette
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f] [name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] R0binette
Pasquina [name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] R0binette
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] [name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] R0binette
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f] [name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] R0binette

Otherwise, perhaps [name_f]Paloma[/name_f]?

What’s the arabic word for honey? Would that work as a name?

I was reading on a website that [name_f]Elinor[/name_f] is considered a Quranic name because they believe it came from [name_m]Al[/name_m]-Nour (light, radiance.) I think this “[name_f]El[/name_f]” name would be a nice nod to both [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] & [name_f]Della[/name_f].
[name_f]Elinor[/name_f] [name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]
[name_f]Elinor[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]

Another suggestion: the name [name_f]Adela[/name_f]. (uh-[name_u]DELL[/name_u]-uh) I like it because it combines [name_f]Della[/name_f] + [name_f]Pamela[/name_f], and you said [name_f]Adele[/name_f] was a [name_m]French[/name_m] Muslim name you like.
[name_f]Adela[/name_f] [name_f]Maryam[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]
[name_f]Adela[/name_f] [name_f]Blythe[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]

Also, what about just [name_f]Mela[/name_f] (as in Pamela pron. “mee-luh”:

[name_f]Mela[/name_f] [name_f]Estelle[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]
[name_f]Mela[/name_f] [name_f]Marianne[/name_f] [name_f]Robinette[/name_f]

Another idea: [name_f]Pamina[/name_f], a name from [name_m]Mozart[/name_m]'s [name_u]Magic[/name_u] Flute. It’s really quite lovely and almost like an updated [name_f]Pamela[/name_f].