HELP - Husband and I cannot agree on a name

My husband and I feel like we have discussed every boys name we can think of and we cannot agree. We have one daughter whose name is [name_f]Aurora[/name_f] and are now expecting a boy. We want a name that is strong and meaningful. If I have my way he would be [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] and if my husband had his way he would be [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]. Please help us find a third name that we can both like better than either of these. Thank you.

Suggesting…

[name_m]Brooks[/name_m]
[name_m]Marius[/name_m]
[name_u]Everett[/name_u]
[name_m]Briggs[/name_m]
[name_m]Alistair[/name_m]
[name_m]Marcus[/name_m]

What about:

[name_m]Soren[/name_m]
[name_m]Silas[/name_m]
[name_u]August[/name_u]/[name_m]Augustin[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Julius[/name_m]
[name_m]Cassian[/name_m]
[name_m]Crispin[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Holden[/name_m]
[name_m]Lachlan[/name_m]
[name_m]Anders[/name_m]
[name_m]Wesley[/name_m]
[name_m]Dominic[/name_m]
[name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Cormac[/name_m]
[name_u]Flynn[/name_u]
[name_m]Xander[/name_m]
[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m]/[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m]
[name_m]Quentin[/name_m]
[name_u]Sullivan[/name_u]
[name_m]Ivan[/name_m]
[name_m]Nikolai[/name_m]
[name_u]Barrett[/name_u]

[name_u]Elliot[/name_u]
[name_m]Montgomery[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
[name_m]Timothy[/name_m]

Would you consider [name_u]Teddy[/name_u]?

[name_m]Alexander[/name_m]
[name_m]Huxley[/name_m]
[name_m]Finnegan[/name_m]
[name_u]Sloane[/name_u]
[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m]
[name_u]Ashton[/name_u]

[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]
[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]
[name_m]Edward[/name_m]
[name_u]Walker[/name_u]
[name_m]Jonathan[/name_m]
[name_m]Liam[/name_m]
[name_m]Mathias[/name_m]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m]
[name_m]Nicholas[/name_m]
[name_m]Benedict[/name_m]
[name_u]Tristan[/name_u]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps! Good luck with your decision!

[name_m]Alexander[/name_m]
[name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m]
[name_u]Laurence[/name_u]
[name_m]Vincent[/name_m]

I really like both - both great names and both sound great beside [name_f]Aurora[/name_f].
I slightly prefer [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] nn [name_u]Theo[/name_u].

Could you use [name_u]Tristan[/name_u] as a compromise? While I love both [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] and [name_m]Theodore[/name_m], the OR part of [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] is very similar to [name_f]Aurora[/name_f], so I’d probably go with [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] so that the names didn’t rhyme too much.

Some similar names:

[name_f]Aurora[/name_f] and

[name_m]Benedict[/name_m]
[name_m]Dominic[/name_m]
[name_m]Felix[/name_m]
[name_m]Ferdinand[/name_m]
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m]
[name_m]Gideon[/name_m]
[name_m]Gilbert[/name_m]
[name_m]Graham[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]
[name_m]Kenneth[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m]
[name_m]Marius[/name_m]
[name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m]
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m]
[name_m]Philip[/name_m]
[name_m]Simon[/name_m]
[name_m]Stephen[/name_m]
[name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m]
[name_m]Timothy[/name_m]
[name_m]Victor[/name_m]
[name_m]Vincent[/name_m]
[name_m]Xavier[/name_m]

[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
[name_m]Alexander[/name_m]
[name_u]Jameson[/name_u]
[name_m]Quentin[/name_m]

Your naming styles aren’t too far apart so at least you have that. I also noticed that both names are 3 syllables with nice nick name option. Here are some more ideas along those lines…

[name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] nn [name_m]Gabe[/name_m]
[name_m]Reginald[/name_m] nn [name_u]Rex[/name_u]
[name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m] nn [name_m]Nate[/name_m]
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m] nn [name_m]Rick[/name_m] or [name_u]Freddie[/name_u]
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u] nn [name_m]Eli[/name_m]
[name_m]Augustus[/name_m] nn [name_u]Gus[/name_u]
[name_m]Raphael[/name_m] nn [name_u]Rafe[/name_u]

[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucas[/name_m]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]
[name_m]Henry[/name_m]
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u]