🐚 Honouring 2 people with one name

I am looking to honour a couple of people with a single middle name. The names I am looking to honour Andrɛw John and Sį“€ndrį“€ Jɛᓀn. While the most obvious option would be Jɛᓀn for a boy (pronounced zhahn), I can’t use it. My sticking point is that my mom’s name is Bį“€rbį“€rį“€ Jɛᓀnnɛ, and she (and her family) would immediately assume it’s an honour name for her… and I don’t want to honour her in any way, shape or form.

I have come up with a couple of alternatives, but I don’t know if they work to accomplish the double duty job I want them to do.

  • Andrį“€ → Boy / Girl option
    Note: I do have a cousin (mom’s side) named Anndrį“€, but no one expects me to honour her.

  • Sį“€ndrɛ → Boy option, might work for a Girl

  • Andras → Boy option
    Note: I do have a cousin (mom’s side) named Anndrį“€, but no one expects me to honour her.

Any other ideas or constructive criticism, I’d be happy to hear it.

TIA

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I like Andras – unexpected and honors both view letters.

I’d add in

Andreas
Anders
Sanders
Anja

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@Greyblue Thank you for these. I appreciate the feedback as I’ve been back and forth on if anyone would recognize the honour since finding it.

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Food for thought…

[name_f]Adria[/name_f]
[name_f]Adrienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Adriana[/name_f]
[name_f]Cendrine[/name_f]
[name_f]Sandrine[/name_f]
[name_f]Sage[/name_f]
[name_f]Saga[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgina[/name_f]
[name_f]Ginevra[/name_f]
Sanguine
[name_f]Deidre[/name_f]
[name_f]Deidra[/name_f]
[name_f]Janine[/name_f]
[name_f]Jeanine[/name_f]
[name_f]Deandra[/name_f]
Saydree

maybe you could make one up?

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[name_m]Johan[/name_m] came to mind.

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I think [name_m]Andras[/name_m] is great and so clever! Your other ideas are also wonderful and definitely pull double duty.

Could [name_m]Alessandro[/name_m] / [name_f]Alessandra[/name_f] work for you? It has the initial A and ā€˜andr’ from [name_m]Andrew[/name_m] and the ā€˜sandr’ from [name_f]Sandra[/name_f]? It might be better for [name_f]Sandra[/name_f] than [name_m]Andrew[/name_m] but I think it could work for both.

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@ricepud I appreciate the list… I’ll have to consider some of them. Strangely, I’m not one to make up names and feel comfortable about it. Also, oddly, I am not afraid to use a rare name despite the difficulty I’ve had with my rare name… I think most of the time it’s the spelling that does it for me. As long as the spelling is intuitive I’m fine, but (as mine is) I can’t do common names with ultra rare spellings that make the name less intuitive to anyone trying to read it. Thank you.

@Alix2016 [name_m]Johan[/name_m] is a great idea… it may be just enough separation from Jɛᓀn that it wouldn’t immediately be attributed to my mom’s name.

@Gingilocks101 I appreciate your insight… it’s good to know that someone else can see that they work. [name_m]Alessandro[/name_m] and [name_f]Alessandra[/name_f] are worth looking at – and I’m all for international variations of names (and I love some international variations more so than the expected variation in my area and family). Again, thank you.

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Might I suggest Drewan? I have a friend Drouin but if you spell it Drewan is an anagram of 4ndrew but also includes the ā€œanā€ from Je@n.

[name_m]Dean[/name_m] - D from 4ndrew and -ean from Je@n
[name_f]Willadean[/name_f] or [name_f]Willodean[/name_f] - W and D from 4ndrew -ean from Je@n
[name_m]Sawyer[/name_m] [name_m]Jonathan[/name_m] - S from $andra, W from 4ndrew, -an from both
[name_m]Lysander[/name_m], [name_m]Cassander[/name_m] - S from $andra, -and from both
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] - -and from both
[name_f]Johnna[/name_f] [name_f]Samantha[/name_f] - J0hn and S -an from $andra
[name_f]Kendra[/name_f] [name_f]Johanna[/name_f] - -ndra from $andra and Joh-n from J0hn
[name_f]Rose[/name_f] - R from 4ndrew, O from J0hn, S from $andra, E from Je@n
[name_f]Grace[/name_f] - J0hn (and Je@n) mean ā€œGod is Graciousā€
[name_f]Anna[/name_f] - from both, means grace similar to the meaning of J0hn and Je@n
[name_f]Georgiana[/name_f] [name_f]Melisandre[/name_f] - This feels like some sort of combination of all four names while also being entirely not but might be too similar to Je@nne
[name_m]Charles[/name_m] [name_m]Sandy[/name_m] - means man like 4ndrew, [name_m]Sandy[/name_m] from $andra
[name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] - means ā€œGod is my strong manā€, J0hn means ā€œGod is gracious,ā€ 4ndrew means manly and $andra is a derivative of [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] which means ā€œdefender of manā€
[name_m]Nicandros[/name_m] - means ā€œvictory of a manā€, similar to the meanings of $andra and 4ndrew
[name_m]Truman[/name_m] - means ā€œtrue manā€ similar to the meanings of 4ndrew and $andra

[name_f]Andrea[/name_f] or [name_m]Andreas[/name_m]?

[name_m]Sandy[/name_m]
[name_f]Andi[/name_f]
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m]
[name_m]Jonas[/name_m]

Honoring [name_m]John[/name_m] and [name_f]Jean[/name_f] but not [name_f]Jeanne[/name_f] is tough – but you’re lucky that [name_m]Andr[/name_m]ew and Sandra share that four-letter pattern. [name_f]Any[/name_f] of the three options you listed work perfectly!

Some other options:

[name_f]Andris[/name_f]
[name_m]Landric[/name_m]

[name_f]Chandra[/name_f]
[name_f]Lysandra[/name_f]
Sandrine/Xandrine

I also think any name ending in -ander would work. There are so many good ones, mostly masculine: [name_m]Evander[/name_m], [name_m]Leander[/name_m], [name_m]Cassander[/name_m], [name_m]Leander[/name_m], [name_m]Nicander[/name_m], [name_m]Sander[/name_m]. [name_m]Coriander[/name_m] could work for a fem/neutral option.

@shanade213 Some of these are great. I hadn’t thought of using such a stretch so I will have to consider the idea and see where it falls for me. Thank you.

@mayliss These two are under consideration. Thank you.

@Ehrob1 I’ve add these to my list for consideration. Thank you.