I haven’t been around here quite as long as a lot of you guys so maybe I just don’t get it, but I agree. They’re just names, and for a lot of members they aren’t even names for real children. I don’t really get why it would matter if more than one person loves the same name. In fact, shouldn’t that actually be a good thing? I would take it as a compliment.
And just to add more to it, in real life I always think it’s weird when people get upset when their neighbor’s cousin’s friend “steals” their baby name. Obviously if someone I am close with and see often used a baby name I would be upset, but someone you have very little or no relationship with? Who cares. You don’t have ownership over a name.