The other names my parents were considering were [name]Zoe[/name], [name]Amanda[/name] and [name]Jillian[/name]. All were established names, but then they decided they wanted to use a family name. [name]How[/name] they got from [name]Amanda[/name], a name that reeks '90s kid, to [name]Reine[/name], a name that barely even made the extended list in 1998 (four other girls besides me were given my name), is beyond me. [name]Reine[/name] was my paternal grandmother’s maiden name, though it was spelled with the accent on the ‘e’. [name]Rebecca[/name], my middle, comes from my aunt.
I’ve only talked to my mom about this, but she really didn’t think it through all the options.
Me: Who else could you have named me after?
Mom: I always loved my Aunt [name]Alice[/name]. She was a nurse that lived during the Depression. She took four teenaged girls off the street, gave them a place to live and helped them through nursing school. But the name’s too old lady.
Me: What about [name]Alicia[/name]? Or better yet, [name]Adelaide[/name]? Or [name]Heidi[/name], or [name]Alida[/name]?
Sigh… I could’ve been [name]Adelaide[/name] and gone by [name]Dell[/name], [name]Addy[/name] or [name]Heidi[/name]…
And then, the infamous conversation…
Mom: My grandmother was amazing. But her name… I could never have a [name]Florence[/name], who would be a [name]Flo[/name].
Me: I would have gone by [name]Flora[/name]. Or [name]Ren[/name].
Mom: That’s pretty… But [name]Florence[/name] by itself is very old lady… A bit too much.
Me: What about [name]Fiorella[/name] or [name]Florentina[/name]?
Mom: We only had name books, not websites and forums.
My mom also says that she would have pushed hard for [name]Elizabeth[/name] if she knew the meaning. I could be a [name]Libby[/name]…
The better story comes from my brother. They chose to keep the gender a surprise, and the only girls’ name they could agree on was [name]Haley[/name]. There was a small problem, though. My name is pronounced [name]Rainey[/name]. [name]Rain[/name]-y and Hail-y. Thank goodness he came as my little brother!