I think you should like and enjoy saying your daughter’s name. It shouldn’t make you wince or feel tense or embarrassed. This is what I’d say to your husband. I feel like that energy passes in small but cumulative ways to your kid, the feeling that her mother is resisting her name. I also think there is teasing potential with the name, when though it’s also quite spunky and cool - oozing, asthma and, imo, it sounding a little like a traditional name for grandmother / a different heritage than your others.
If you are changing, think you should go for something with similar sounds - and equally cool & distinct like your other names: eg [name_f]Roisin[/name_f] (Ro-sheen, little rose), [name_f]Zélie[/name_f] (Zaylee, if you’re OK with bookend Z’s), same for [name_f]Zosia[/name_f] (Zosia would be so good!), [name_f]Romilly[/name_f], Océanne (Oh-si-Anne), [name_f]Saskia[/name_f], [name_f]Cosima[/name_f] or [name_f]Cosmina[/name_f], [name_f]Odette[/name_f], [name_f]Osanna[/name_f] (could still use Ozzy), [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f] or [name_f]Rosalind[/name_f] (also Ozzy), and [name_f]Romy[/name_f].
I think [name_f]Holiday[/name_f] is a little out of sync but still works. [name_f]Frederica[/name_f] is a little clunky compared to your others but also works (maybe [name_f]Freida[/name_f] or [name_f]Freya[/name_f] closer to others?). I also prefer [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] though and I don’t think it matters if close to a parent’s name (mine is to mine and would come up maybe once every few years!).
[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps - and trumping all this is what @persephonescrown said. It really should come from your feelings without the noise from others. But changing it is important if you know you’ll never feel easy saying, hearing or explaining the name - despite its special meaning.