Hey y’all! I am coming up on 30 weeks of pregnancy with a baby boy! Naming is so hard for us. We’ve spent a lot of time narrowing down our list and I really think that it’s going to be either [name_u]Levi[/name_u] or [name_u]Henry[/name_u]. [name_f]My[/name_f] husband’s favorite name was [name_u]William[/name_u] but I vetoed it, mine was [name_u]Miles[/name_u] but he vetoed that. We also had [name_u]Liam[/name_u], [name_u]Logan[/name_u], and [name_u]Noah[/name_u], but though (lots and lots) of reflection, and through what we can agree on, these two are coming out on top.
[name_f]My[/name_f] husband is leaning [name_u]Henry[/name_u] right now and I think I am too. We have an older daughter named [name_f]Hannah[/name_f] and we think two H names is a touch of cute without being cheesy. (No chance of baby #3 needing to match a theme or not - we’re done after this little one).
I like [name_u]Henry[/name_u] but I’m getting cold feet. It’s not too old-fashioned, is it? (I doubt it, because it’s in the SSA’s top 10) I just don’t know any young Henrys. (Silly observation, but I also have a weird feeling about it because I have a major celeb crush on [name_u]Henry[/name_u] Cavill) but maybe that association would fade if it becomes my kid’s name. I love that it’s classic, this was important to both of us. Like [name_f]Hannah[/name_f], it lacks obvious nicknames, and putting it through the “think like a middle schooler” ringer, I don’t think it can be made fun of.
[name_u]Levi[/name_u] - we have hesitations on because we aren’t sure if it’s going to get associated with the jeans? [name_f]My[/name_f] husband also doesn’t like it quite as much as [name_u]Henry[/name_u]. Someone told us it has a “country” vibe as well, kind of silly for being a Hebrew name, but perhaps they are right. I like it though - IMO I think it’s a “cooler” name than our other choices. For some reason I loved [name_u]Levi[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u] and I am hung up on how I wish we could have an “LJ” nickname - but that seems a not so solid reason to name my kid that, no?
I’m just getting frustrated. I wish I just LOVED either name, but that’s what we have to work with. How do you decide between two names? How do you feel confident? I definitely don’t. Is it normal to not feel confident or head over heels for your child’s name? We both loved [name_f]Hannah[/name_f] immediately so it was an easy name to bestow, there is a lot more doubt this time. [name_f]My[/name_f] husband says let’s stop talking about it and name him [name_u]Henry[/name_u] - I just don’t feel 100% about it though.
(We aren’t even going to bother with middle names until he is born - we plan to iron the first name out first and foremost then take the birth certificate paperwork home and think about the middle name lol. Like I said, difficult)
Any thoughts or advice is appreciated.
Thank you for reading!!