Maybe…
Colette after [name_f]Sidonie[/name_f]-[name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f] [name_f]Colette[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] after [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] Hicks [name_u]Anderson[/name_u]
[name_f]Tove[/name_f] after [name_f]Tove[/name_f] [name_m]Jansson[/name_m]
[name_f]Lili[/name_f] or [name_f]Lily[/name_f] after [name_f]Lili[/name_f] [name_f]Elbe[/name_f]
[name_f]Christine[/name_f] after [name_f]Christine[/name_f] Jorgensen
Renée after Renée [name_m]Richards[/name_m]
[name_u]Shane[/name_u] after [name_u]Jackie[/name_u] [name_u]Shane[/name_u]
Tom after Touko Laakso/Tom of Finland
[name_u]Baldwin[/name_u] after [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_u]Baldwin[/name_u]
[name_m]Rustin[/name_m] or [name_m]Rusty[/name_m]? after [name_m]Bayard[/name_m] [name_m]Rustin[/name_m]
[name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] after [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] [name_u]Baker[/name_u] 
[name_u]Quentin[/name_u] after [name_u]Quentin[/name_u] Crisp
[name_m]Wilfred[/name_m] after [name_m]Wilfred[/name_m] [name_u]Owen[/name_u]
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] after E.M. [name_m]Forster[/name_m]
[name_m]Walter[/name_m] after [name_m]Walt[/name_m] [name_m]Whitman[/name_m]
[name_u]Ashton[/name_u] after [name_m]Mark[/name_m] [name_u]Ashton[/name_u]
[name_m]Keith[/name_m] after [name_m]Keith[/name_m] Haring
I’d like to add [name_m]Alan[/name_m] Mathison Turing somehow too but not keen on [name_m]Alan[/name_m], to be honest. Maybe Turing or Mathison could work?
Same with [name_f]Barbara[/name_f] Gittings and [name_m]Larry[/name_m] Kramer - would be cool to honour them, but not super excited about [name_m]Larry[/name_m] or [name_f]Barbara[/name_f].