Lots I like, nothing I LOVE

I’m really struggling to find a girls’ name that I love. During my last pregnancy, I had no trouble choosing [name_f]Jane[/name_f]'s name. It felt RIGHT, and that was it. This time, there are loads of names I like, but so far nothing feels quite, exactly right.

My two absolute favourites girls’ names don’t work with the last name. [name_f]Iris[/name_f] (last name) sounds too hissy, and I don’t like the initials that [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] (last name) generates.

I’m looking for a name that…
a) sounds great with big sister, [name_f]Jane[/name_f]
b) works with either [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] or [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] as the middle name (these are our top choices for middles, it’ll likely be one or the other).
c) works with a one syllable last name that starts with a P and ends with an -s sound.
d) does not start with a J or a P

So, either __________ [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] P.
or _________ [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] P.

Thanks for your help as I search for inspiration.

[name_f]Jane[/name_f] &

[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Catherine[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Maeve[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Olivia[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Isobel[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Frances[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Willa[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]

Good luck! :slight_smile:

Seconding [name_f]Clara[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] and [name_f]Willa[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]

[name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ada[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Helen[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ida[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Celia[/name_f] [name_f]Pheobe[/name_f]
[name_f]Holly[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Dorothy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Mabel[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Alma[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Lily[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

From your signature I like [name_u]Marian[/name_u] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f], [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f], and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f].

Others (sorry for repeats!):
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Harriet[/name_f]
[name_f]Cecily[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Louise[/name_f]
[name_f]Louisa[/name_f]
[name_f]Mary[/name_f]

Some ideas…

[name_f]Leah[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Audrey[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Elise[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

[name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Maria[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Nina[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Bianca[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Myla[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]

[name_f]Alice[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Bette[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Gracie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Helena[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Laila[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Martha[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Marta[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Mabel[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_u]Raye[/name_u] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]

X

Ella Phoebe
Clara Phoebe
Anna Eleanor
Edith Eleanor
Eliza Phoebe
Lydia Phoebe
Margaret Eleanor
Miriam Eleanor
Dorothea Eleanor
Teresa Eleanor
Celia Eleanor
Bridget Eleanor
Ivy Eleanor
Louisa Eleanor
Irene Phoebe
Virginia Eleanor
Agnes Phoebe
Audrey Eleanor

Thanks for the ideas!

Some stand-outs:
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] - though I fear it’s becoming too popular?
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f] - is this alright for a non-religious family?
[name_f]Willa[/name_f]
[name_f]Helen[/name_f]
[name_f]Alma[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Irene[/name_f]
[name_f]Dorothy[/name_f] - except that [name_f]MIL[/name_f] is obsessed with The [name_m]Wizard[/name_m] of [name_m]Oz[/name_m], and I worry that the constant movie references would be unbearable

I love [name_f]Ada[/name_f], and it would be just perfect, except that it’s [name_f]Jane[/name_f]'s middle name! I also love [name_f]Caroline[/name_f], but it’s already been used in our circle of friends. And [name_f]Tessa[/name_f] and [name_f]Florence[/name_f] are both so lovely, but they do not sound right with baby’s last name.

Keep the ideas coming!!

Your daughter has a stunning name. [name_f]Jane[/name_f] is one of my favorites for its solid, classic sound, plus the litany of literary ties. I think your style leans towards classic, but not too popular, and vintage. I definitely second [name_f]Alma[/name_f], [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Celia[/name_f] and [name_f]Ivy[/name_f], and as a note on [name_f]Ivy[/name_f]'s popularity, my only personal knowledge of an [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] is a spectacular college gymnast. What about…

[name_f]Frances[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]: If [name_f]Florence[/name_f] is off the table due to conflict with your last name, would [name_f]Frances[/name_f] be an alternative that doesn’t conflict? It is tailored, strong and with lots of weight and meaning, and is beautiful in style. It is #438 for girls, which is less popular than [name_f]Jane[/name_f] but still in the same league. [name_f]Frances[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] is elegant, refined, and serious while also being wearable.
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]: This name is longer than many of your favorites, but reminded me of a blend between [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]. [name_f]Clementine[/name_f] is a vibrant yet tasteful vintage choice, and is bold without being outlandish. [name_f]Clementine[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] has an element of fun, but is also mature and sophisticated.
[name_f]Vera[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]: To me, [name_f]Vera[/name_f] is the epitome of a sophisticated choice: Tailored, feminine, and classic. It has more gravity than just about any name, and is refreshingly unique on a youngster. [name_f]Vera[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] is lively and gorgeous, while [name_f]Vera[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] is packed with meaning and grace.
[name_f]Thea[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]: I love this name for you. It is short and simple, like [name_f]Jane[/name_f], and is also beautiful and vintage. It sounds wonderful with both middle names, and subtly picks up their sounds for flow. [name_f]Theresa[/name_f] or [name_f]Teresa[/name_f], both classics, could work perfectly, and with either middle name.
[name_u]Marian[/name_u] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]: If [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] is too religious, what about the equally classic, solid, and gorgeous [name_u]Marian[/name_u]? It has literary ties, like [name_f]Jane[/name_f], and is better known for those than any religious association. [name_u]Marian[/name_u] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] is flowing, quirky in the best possible way, and sweet, while [name_u]Marian[/name_u] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] is elegant, tasteful, and a bit unexpected. [name_f]EDIT[/name_f]: I just saw that this was already in your signature! I really do love it for you, and apologies for the repeat!
[name_f]Lola[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]: When I thought about [name_f]Alma[/name_f] for you, I also thought of this equally vintage, gentle, sweet name. What’s more, I think it goes PERFECTLY with both of your middle choices. [name_f]Lola[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] is sweet and lovely, but it’s also classic and substantial. [name_f]Lola[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] flows wonderfully, and I love the “l” sounds together.
[name_f]Claudia[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]: If you like [name_f]Celia[/name_f] and [name_u]Marian[/name_u], what about [name_f]Claudia[/name_f]? It’s every bit as classic, a little British, and very stylish. I think it sounds wonderful with both [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f].
[name_f]Marilyn[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]: If you like [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] but are concerned about religious ties, what about [name_f]Marilyn[/name_f]? It’s just as vintage, striking, gorgeous, and classic, and has quite a bit of flair while also remaining tasteful. Another subtle connection: [name_f]Jane[/name_f]'s second middle, [name_f]Kathryn[/name_f]. Depending on the type of flow you like, [name_f]Marilyn[/name_f] is stunning with either middle.
[name_f]Daria[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Dahlia[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]: These “D” names are the epitome of style and elegance. Both of them also have lots of history and richness. I really like this for you, and [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] is another great option.
[name_f]Adele[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]: I know, and people have DMed me with this observation before: I recommend this name ALL. THE. TIME. But so far, I don’t think I’ve convinced anyone to use it, and with the rise of [name_f]Adeline[/name_f], it’s been largely overlooked, landing somewhere in the late 700s for popularity if memory serves. All of this aside, [name_f]Adele[/name_f] is a tailored, stunning, bright, classic with lots of history. I think it is perfect, both in style and substance, with [name_f]Jane[/name_f]. For something longer, [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] is just as elegant, as is [name_f]Adela[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f].
[name_f]Lucille[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]: Far less common than [name_f]Lucy[/name_f], and definitely more serious, [name_f]Lucille[/name_f] is an underused and striking classic that I’d love to see on a girl.
Other ideas: [name_f]Barbara[/name_f], [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f], [name_f]Diana[/name_f]/[name_f]Dina[/name_f]/[name_f]Dinah[/name_f], [name_f]Esther[/name_f], [name_f]Rachel[/name_f], [name_f]Virginia[/name_f], [name_f]Tamara[/name_f], [name_f]Annelise[/name_f], [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f], [name_f]Susannah[/name_f], [name_f]Dorothea[/name_f], [name_f]Verity[/name_f], [name_f]Cecily[/name_f], [name_f]Delphine[/name_f], [name_f]Inez[/name_f]/[name_f]Ines[/name_f], [name_f]Maribel[/name_f], and [name_f]Veda[/name_f].

Seconding [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] and [name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f].

Also:
[name_f]Lila[/name_f]/[name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Coraline[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Tula[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ramona[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ingrid[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Ava[/name_f]/[name_f]Eva[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Pheobe[/name_f]
[name_u]Windsor[/name_u] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Moira[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilith[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Imogen[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Mildred[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Gail[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Verona[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Odette[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Twila[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Mabel[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Sophie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Wendy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Nadine[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Frida[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Molly[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Irene[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Greer[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Mia[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

I like [name_u]Marian[/name_u] from your signature, and [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] (no, not too religious), [name_f]Willa[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] - though I do wonder whether [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] may be too popular for you.

[name_f]Greta[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Greer[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Autumn[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Eda[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] ([name_f]Eda[/name_f] has different etymology to [name_f]Ada[/name_f])
[name_f]Edith[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Anwen[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Fauna[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Nadia[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Dinah[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Tilda[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Anouk[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

[name_f]Jane[/name_f] and Brisby [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] P.

[name_f]Martha[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]! :slight_smile:

Would [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] work as a first? I think it goes well with [name_f]Jane[/name_f].

[name_f]Edith[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Esther[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Fay[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Harriet[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Louise[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Sybil[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

Wow! Some more great ideas, thanks everyone.

@danakatherine - you always have such thoughtful answers.

These are my favourites from the latest responses:
Vera - though it’s already been used by a friend
Diana
Clara - but my name is Claire…
Gwen
Tabitha
Irene
Dinah
Greta
Martha
Miriam

@sarah1800 - I love Eleanor so much, and had planned to use it during my first pregnancy. Unfortunately, I lost that baby after the first trimester, so now, Eleanor is sort of an honour name for me, because it makes me think of my first baby.

[name_f]Jane[/name_f] and [name_f]Maren[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

My first thought was [name_f]Vera[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]!

Sorry for any repeats;

[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Vera[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Sophie[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Lily[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Martha[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Nancy[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f] [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]

[name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Imogen[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgia[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Martha[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f] [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]

@suzannah - I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_f]Maren[/name_f], and it would be perfect, except that I have a cousin named [name_f]Merryn[/name_f] (same pronunciation).

@leafsgirl44 - thanks! I like [name_f]Tessa[/name_f], [name_f]Georgia[/name_f], and [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] best.