This is the one thing holding me back from naming a child [name_f]Clementine[/name_f] one day; I love everything about it except for the possibility of the nickname “[name_u]Clem[/name_u]”…ughhh! [name_u]Clem[/name_u] sounds like loose folds of skin, not something a person should be called!
I would want people to call her [name_f]Clementine[/name_f] or [name_m]Lemon[/name_m], but the thought that someone might one day call her [name_u]Clem[/name_u] is enough to give me serious, serious pause about really using it.
Err… whispers I actually think [name_u]Clem[/name_u] is really sweet! But your description did make me giggle.
[name_f]Lavender[/name_f]: Lav or Lavvie
[name_f]Giselle[/name_f]: Jizz or Jizzy
[name_f]Bridget[/name_f]: [name_f]Biddy[/name_f] or [name_f]Birdie[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]: [name_u]Mattie[/name_u] or [name_f]Tillie[/name_f]
[name_m]Bartholomew[/name_m]: [name_m]Bart[/name_m] or [name_u]Barry[/name_u]
[name_u]Laurence[/name_u]: [name_m]Larry[/name_m]
[name_u]August[/name_u]: [name_u]Gus[/name_u]
[name_m]Mordecai[/name_m]: [name_m]Mordy[/name_m] or [name_u]Kai[/name_u]
There are other nicknames for all of these which I really like, but these ones are the most likely and I really dislike them!
I absolutely love the name [name_m]Joseph[/name_m], cannot abide the name [name_m]Joe[/name_m].
[name_m]Geoffrey[/name_m]: [name_m]Jeff[/name_m]
[name_u]August[/name_u]/[name_m]Augustus[/name_m]: [name_u]Gus[/name_u]
[name_u]Lawrence[/name_u]: [name_m]Larry[/name_m]
[name_f]Doris[/name_f]: [name_f]Dorry[/name_f]
[name_m]Reuben[/name_m]: [name_m]Rube[/name_m]
[name_f]Angelica[/name_f]: [name_u]Angie[/name_u]
I love the name [name_f]Valentina[/name_f] but passionately hate the nicknames [name_u]Val[/name_u] and [name_f]Tina[/name_f], which sound so dated.
[name_f]Violet[/name_f] nicknamed [name_f]Vi[/name_f] isn’t my cup of tea, but [name_f]Vivi[/name_f] is okay
[name_f]Katherine[/name_f] to [name_f]Kathy[/name_f] isn’t nice either, but I love [name_f]Kate[/name_f], and [name_f]Katy[/name_f] is sweet.
[name_u]Michael[/name_u] sounds nice as a full name, but I dont like [name_m]Mike[/name_m], [name_m]Mick[/name_m] or Mich.
It should also be made a crime to shorten [name_u]James[/name_u] to [name_m]Jim[/name_m].
I agree with some of you… [name_m]Larry[/name_m] is awful. I like [name_u]Laurie[/name_u] (little women)for [name_u]Lawrence[/name_u] or just the full proper names is handsome.
I actually like [name_u]Gus[/name_u] for [name_u]August[/name_u] but I like Auggie more.
I agree [name_m]Joe[/name_m] and [name_m]Joseph[/name_m]. And jizz is unfortunate. Lol
I agree with [name_u]Lawrence[/name_u] and [name_m]Larry[/name_m]. I was pleased to read an article about unusual nicknames a while ago which brought up [name_u]Larkin[/name_u] as a nn for [name_u]Lawrence[/name_u].
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f] and [name_u]Clem[/name_u], although I do find [name_u]Clem[/name_u] very endearing and don’t hear “Clam” but it seems like my family and SO do
[name_f]Virginia[/name_f] and [name_f]Ginny[/name_f], most people love [name_f]Ginny[/name_f] but I reaaaally don’t like it, I wouldn’t know how to force people to call her [name_f]Virginia[/name_f] though
[name_f]Petra[/name_f] and [name_f]Pet[/name_f], just feels a bit weird
[name_f]Frances[/name_f] and [name_f]Franny[/name_f], just don’t like the nickname, but [name_f]Frances[/name_f] is such a beautiful name
[name_f]Bernadette[/name_f] “[name_u]Bernie[/name_u]” although there are other nns that aren’t as obvious but [name_u]Bernie[/name_u] makes me dislike the name.
[name_u]Bellamy[/name_u] for a boy there’s [name_u]Bell[/name_u], [name_f]Amy[/name_f], and [name_f]Ella[/name_f].
[name_m]Magnus[/name_m] has [name_f]Mags[/name_f] the best is Mang which isn’t tooo bad.
[name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m] I dislike [name_m]Tad[/name_m] and Thaddy so I would use a mn starting with Ne- to get [name_m]Thane[/name_m].
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m]-[name_u]Pat[/name_u], [name_u]Paddy[/name_u], and [name_m]Rick[/name_m] are awful. I like the sound of Patch, but not the spelling.
I tend to move names with nn I don’t like to the GP pile.
[name_m]Alistair[/name_m]/Alasdar: not a fan of [name_m]Al[/name_m]
[name_m]Alaric[/name_m]/[name_m]Alarik[/name_m]: [name_m]Al[/name_m] again
[name_m]Dominic[/name_m]: not a fan of [name_u]Nic[/name_u]
[name_m]Edmund[/name_m]: [name_m]Ed[/name_m], [name_m]Eddie[/name_m], [name_m]Ned[/name_m], Ted
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m]: not a fan of [name_m]Fred[/name_m] or [name_u]Freddy[/name_u], love [name_m]Fritz[/name_m] though
[name_u]Michael[/name_u]: grew up with too many Mikes and Mikeys
[name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m]: dislike [name_m]Nathan[/name_m] (again, I think I heard too much)
[name_m]Nicholas[/name_m]: [name_u]Nick[/name_u], [name_u]Nicky[/name_u] (heard too much)
[name_m]Rafferty[/name_m]: [name_u]Rafe[/name_u] because it’s too close in appearance to rape
[name_m]Charles[/name_m]: [name_m]Chuck[/name_m], [name_m]Chuckie[/name_m]
[name_f]Therese[/name_f]/[name_f]Theresa[/name_f]: [name_m]Even[/name_m] though [name_f]Tessa[/name_f] (which I love) is a legitimate nn from it, I’ve only ever heard people use [name_u]Terry[/name_u]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]: not a fan of [name_m]Haze[/name_m]
[name_f]Cassandra[/name_f]: not a fan of [name_f]Cassie[/name_f], [name_f]Sandra[/name_f], or [name_u]Sandy[/name_u]
[name_f]Lucia[/name_f]: I don’t love [name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]/[name_f]Georgia[/name_f]/[name_f]Geneva[/name_f]: dislike [name_f]Gigi[/name_f], I don’t want my kid’s nickname being slang for the male anatomy
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]/[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Elena[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleni[/name_f]: I’ve heard of so many Ellies and Ellas
[name_f]Philippa[/name_f]: dislike [name_f]Pippa[/name_f] again for the slang thing; also Phili since I often go there I wouldn’t want the confusion
[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f]: dislike [name_f]Marj[/name_f], [name_f]Margie[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]/[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]: not a fan of [name_f]Rosie[/name_f], [name_f]Rosa[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]: [name_f]Vicky[/name_f], [name_f]Tory[/name_f]
If someone wants to make fun of you, it doesn’t matter if you have a common name or an obscure one. Go ahead and name your child something that you like.
My own name is in a popular song. I’ve been sung at, rhymed with, and addressed by not-so-flattering diminutive pet forms of my name. Its annoying for a whole few seconds and then I firmly tell people I don’t appreciate it and they stop.
Also, there is entirely the possibility that your child might actually like the nicknames that you listed. I know of people that go by names that I wouldn’t want to be called in a million years, but they wear them like a champ. There is also the possibility of your child earning a completely different nickname that is nowhere close to their actual name, i.e. Speedy because they run fast.
I actually really like the name [name_f]Pamela[/name_f], but I really dislike [name_f]Pam[/name_f]. [name_f]Pamela[/name_f] is a strong yet feminine name, but [name_f]Pam[/name_f] sounds harsh and outdated.
I just noticed that both my and SO’s maternal grandmothers have basically nice names - [name_f]Ursula[/name_f] and [name_f]Barbara[/name_f] - which shorten to the most horrible german nicknames, Uschi and Bärbel. (prn [name_m]Ushi[/name_m] like Sushi and Bair-bell)
So much about family names, I guess.