I feel like I keep posting this but we cannot come up with anything we both like. I am at the point where I am thinking no mn would be ok, b/c I feel like IF we agree, it’s going to be a hurried choice, not meaningful, etc. My mn is [name]Lee[/name] and I have never liked it b/c it feels like an afterthought.
I made a list last night and he crossed off all but these:
[name]Adeline[/name]
[name]Eleanor[/name]
[name]Eloise[/name]
[name]Ingrid[/name]
[name]Janet[/name]
[name]Lucille[/name]
[name]Madeline[/name]
His top favs are:
[name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Violet[/name]
[name]Penelope[/name]
[name]Dorothy[/name]
I do not like [name]Beatrice[/name] (due to the weird pn issue of [name]Beat[/name]-rizz) or [name]Violet[/name]. I do kind of like [name]Penelope[/name] and [name]Dorothy[/name] (my grammy’s mn) but he is considering “saving” those in case we have another daughter someday.
These are some names that I liked but he does not:
[name]Catherine[/name]
[name]Genevieve[/name]
[name]Josephine[/name]
[name]Maeve[/name]
And these are the family names that are already taken:
[name]Adele[/name]
[name]Amelia[/name]
[name]Caroline[/name]
[name]Grace[/name]
[name]Elaine[/name]
[name]Elizabeth[/name]
[name]Jane[/name]
[name]Katherine[/name]
[name]Laurel[/name]
[name]Meredith[/name]
I would just like some comments on the options I’ve listed above. Should I push for anything? I kind of wanted the mn to mean something.
Of the [name]RED[/name] names, [name]Janet[/name] is my dad’s mom’s name. I don’t particularly like this name, but I could get on board b/c it’s her name. [name]Madeline[/name] was sort of a combo of my sisters’ and his sister’s name (M- for [name]Meredith[/name], -ad- for [name]Adele[/name], -el- for [name]Elaine[/name], and -ine for [name]Katherine[/name]). BUT it’s pretty popular… [name]Adeline[/name] is similar to [name]Adele[/name] (I am surprised he left that one on the list). The others are just names.
Of the PURPLE names, [name]Jane[/name] and [name]Grace[/name] are our nieces’ mns. Could we reuse them? [name]Jane[/name] is also my mom’s mn, and [name]Grace[/name] is a name I’ve liked for a long time.
See how I am all over the place? Any advice for me? I am 32.5 weeks so I do still have some time… Last name is R@nnenberg so super [name]German[/name] sounding. My maiden name is [name]Simon[/name] but [name]Nina[/name] [name]Simone[/name] kind of ruined that option.
Thanks for any help!