Millicent, Marjorie, Mildred... Cute and fresh or doomed to eternal knitting needles?

I’ve recently started falling for these long, M names that are a bit matronly.

[name_f]Millicent[/name_f] feels like all the parts of [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] that I used to love without all the popularity that I don’t. I could definitely imagine a little [name_f]Millicent[/name_f], it’s soft and delicate while still feeling strong and not whispy.

I know a preschool aged [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] so that has shaped my opinion a bit… But it feels outside the current name stratosphere while also being familiar and spunky.

[name_f]Mildred[/name_f] is the one that I’m least sure about… It was my grandmother’s name and I’ve always put various “[name_f]Millie[/name_f]” names down as honor names for her, but the actual name does feel a bit heavy. It is one of the most obvious honor names that I seem to always look past.

Initial opinions on these? A ranking of the three? Ideas for middles or siblings? Disorganized commentary? I’ll take whatever you have:)

([name_m]Feel[/name_m] free to take my personal thoughts about [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] out of the equation and just comment on the name itself, also I don’t plan to be naming anyone for at least 5 years so take those notes into account if at all helpful.)

  1. Marjorie: agree with you that it’s familiar but not overly used, I like how upbeat it is, and I find it refreshing. Feels the least matronly to me.

  2. Millicent: reminds me of a form of measurement/a bug if I’m honest but I appreciate the meaning it has for you and how soft but strong it feels. For me, it’s a bit more buttoned up than the carefree [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f]. I think it’s a good way to achieve [name_f]Millie[/name_f] as a nn so you retain the familial through-line while giving the child their own identity

  3. Mildred: despite the sweet family connection to the name, I can’t help but think of mildew and dread so I would agree it is a bit heavy. I also like the idea of giving a child their own name with some connection to a relative rather than the same name (see [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] nn [name_f]Millie[/name_f] above)

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I would rate them:

  1. Millicent
  2. Mildred
  3. Marjorie

I think my opinion on [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] could change, but it’s not there for me yet. I love [name_f]Millicent[/name_f], I love [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] but slightly more tentatively (it sounds like mildew, but I don’t really mind anymore).

Here are a bunch of names that have similar vibes to me:
[name_f]Elspeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Ethel[/name_f]
[name_f]Martha[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f] (but less, because [name_f]Florence[/name_f] is ridiculously popular atm)
[name_f]Maude[/name_f]
[name_f]Agnes[/name_f]
[name_f]Agatha[/name_f]
[name_f]Theodora[/name_f]
[name_f]Winifred[/name_f]
[name_f]Enid[/name_f]
[name_f]Edith[/name_f]
[name_f]Gertrude[/name_f]
[name_f]Prudence[/name_f]
[name_f]Dorothy[/name_f]
[name_m]Linus[/name_m]
[name_m]Rupert[/name_m]
[name_m]Phineas[/name_m]
[name_m]Chester[/name_m]
[name_m]Albert[/name_m]
[name_m]Wilfred[/name_m]
[name_m]Wilbur[/name_m]

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I love the sound of [name_f]Millicent[/name_f], indifferent to [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] and [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] is just not my cup of tea, feels dated.

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[name_f]Millicent[/name_f]: This doesn’t sound stuffy or dated to me at all ! It feels like [name_f]Winifred[/name_f] or [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], definitely vintage but back in style though not quite trendy. Plus the obvious nickname [name_f]Millie[/name_f] is adorable and sweet
[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f]: I personally really like it! I think it has such a cheerful, spring-like sound, it makes me think of flowers and sunshine. It has a lot of more ‘‘modern’’ nicknames too like [name_f]Mae[/name_f], [name_u]Jorie[/name_u] and [name_u]Rory[/name_u] which helps, though I have a soft spot for [name_f]Margie[/name_f].
[name_f]Mildred[/name_f]: I don’t think it’s ready for a revival just yet, but I think it eventually deserves one. Yes, mildew and dread sound similar, but so did they in 1920, when it was in the top 10. I think it’s one of those names that feel really sturdy, yet with a surprising softness. Plus nn [name_f]Millie[/name_f] helps a lot. I also adore the meaning of gentle strength, it summarizes the name perfectly.

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I like [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f]. I think it has comeback potential. It has the same “three-syllable-ending-in-y/ie” rhythm as contemporary names like [name_f]Emily[/name_f], [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] and [name_f]Natalie[/name_f]. I also like the herbal connection (marjoram). The only downside is the nickname [name_f]Marge[/name_f], which I do not love. I would probably use [name_f]Mari[/name_f] instead.

Millicent is an interesting name. It reminds me of [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] Fawcett. It’s not my cup of tea, but it’s very unusual and has a Victorian air. (I do really like the [name_u]French[/name_u] form [name_f]Melisande[/name_f], but it has a completely different, fantasy-ish vibe for me.)

Mildred is not a name that appeals to me. I guess it’s the “dread” sound. I find it rather heavy and old-fashioned. However, if there was a cool young celebrity with this name then my opinion might change. Imagines if [name_f]Megan[/name_f] Thee Stallion was called [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] Thee Stallion

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I think Marjorie is usable and cute. [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] and [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] seem dated to me.

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Millicent, [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f], [name_f]Mildred[/name_f], oh my! Yes, I love these names and love your apt description of them being a bit matronly. Apparently, I like matronly names. :slight_smile:

Millicent does have a delicate feel to it. I always thought sisters named [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] and [name_f]Florence[/name_f] would be nice. [name_f]Millie[/name_f] and [name_f]Florrie[/name_f].

Marjorie, my grandmother’s name, is strong. I love [name_f]Mar[/name_f], [name_f]Mara[/name_f], and [name_u]Orie[/name_u] as nns.

Mildred is not a pretty name. But man is it gutsy!

I like:
[name_f]Millicent[/name_f] [name_f]Florence[/name_f]
[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] [name_u]Louise[/name_u]
[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] [name_f]Rosamund[/name_f]
[name_f]Mildred[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f]

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Millicent - I think it could come back because of the [name_f]Millie[/name_f] nickname. That makes it feel more accessible to me. I think [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] would pair well with another vintage name like [name_f]Florence[/name_f], [name_f]Henrietta[/name_f], or [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f].

Marjorie - This feels quite dated to me, but maybe in a few years it will start to come back? [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] [name_m]Swift[/name_m] released a song by this name last night (I believe it’s about her grandmother?) so maybe that will help people see it in a fresh light! The nicknames [name_f]Mara[/name_f] or [name_f]Mari[/name_f] are really sweet.

Mildred - I don’t see [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] making a comeback, sorry - it’s that “dred” sound at the end that gets me. The first part “[name_f]Mil[/name_f]” is really sweet! I think it could be used as an honor middle name, otherwise I would probably use another [name_f]Millie[/name_f] name. I just worry a girl wouldn’t want to be called [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] these days - I know I wouldn’t, personally.

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Millicent has a sweet sharp sound that I think it could work :slight_smile:

Marjorie has the sounds of [name_f]Amelie[/name_f] and [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f], and I like the strong but lyrical vibe

Mildred reminds me a bit of mildew, sorry

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[quote=“[name_u]Harvest[/name_u]-[name_u]Endellion[/name_u], post:8, topic:361455”]
sisters named Millicent and Florence would be nice. Millie and Florrie.
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Oh, I love this idea😍

[quote=“[name_u]Harvest[/name_u]-[name_u]Endellion[/name_u], post:8, topic:361455”]
[name_f]Mildred[/name_f] is not a pretty name. But man is it gutsy!
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I have seen people say “names like [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] and [name_f]Mildred[/name_f]” a few times and I really like [name_f]Ethel[/name_f]. I want to be that gutsy person and go for [name_f]Mildred[/name_f], but gosh she’s a tough one.

I’ve always loooved [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f], but it does worry me as it is a bit dated. Also, the likeness to margarine does dissuade me. Nonetheless, [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] would be a fresh and delightfully merry name to bestow your child :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

The others aren’t my style, so [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] wins for me!

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I prefer [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] to [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] though. [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] is lovely. I like [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] [name_f]Rose[/name_f] as a double barrel name. :slight_smile:

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Honestly, I find all of them a little dated and stuffy, they’re not my cup of tea! I think they’ll come back eventually though, but not just yet. I do think [name_f]Millie[/name_f] really helps to soften [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] and [name_f]Mildred[/name_f], but for [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] I think the obvious nicknames just age it more.

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This made me giggle!

That aside;

[name_f]Millicent[/name_f] - I don’t consider this to be a grandma name like the other two, and actually think it fits with other names that are being revived ([name_f]Agnes[/name_f], [name_f]Maude[/name_f], [name_f]Maeve[/name_f], etc.) I think it’s heavily underrated which sucks since the nn [name_f]Millie[/name_f] is so cute

[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] - I like it as an alternative for [name_u]Marie[/name_u], a popular middle name people tend to overuse, I see the appeal but don’t really see it coming back (maybe a push from pop culture? I think if it was presented as a [name_f]Princess[/name_f] or [name_f]Jane[/name_f] [name_u]Austen[/name_u] like heroine I could see it rise)

[name_f]Mildred[/name_f] - I think this one has potential to come back, I see the appeal given how much I like names like [name_f]Hilda[/name_f] and so do other people, [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] would work however I personally don’t see the appeal I do think this one too grandma-ish

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I wouldn’t mind being doomed to eternal knitting needles! :slight_smile:

Just thought of this. [name_f]Millay[/name_f] for American poet [name_f]Edna[/name_f] St. [name_m]Vincent[/name_m] [name_f]Millay[/name_f]. [name_f]Millay[/name_f] could be an homage to her as a nn for [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] or [name_f]Mildred[/name_f].

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I don’t like [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] as the second syllable is a homophone for “dread”
I think that [name_f]Marjorie[/name_f] could potentially be ready for a revival, but [name_f]Marge[/name_f] is stuck in the past. I like the idea of [name_u]Jorie[/name_u] as a more up to date nickname.

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I love all these names. The great thing about “old-school” names, is they tend to have plenty of NNs.

Favorite to Least:

  1. Millicent
  2. Mildred
  3. Majorie
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Millicent is really sweet, I’m always surprised it’s not more popular because it fits in with lots of other comeback names and is the most straightforward full name for [name_f]Millie[/name_f]. It has that cute old fashioned appeal without being clunky.

Marjorie is cute and definitely has some old-fashioned spunk, I could totally picture it on a modern kid. It definitely does feel more dated and dusty than [name_f]Millicent[/name_f], and I don’t like the lack of good nicknames.

I’ve always liked [name_f]Mildred[/name_f], it’s definitely quite dated and a little clunky but I think it’s cute. I would likely choose [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] over [name_f]Mildred[/name_f], though.

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Millicent is pretty, sweet and preppy. I think this is the best option of the bunch.

Marjorie has never been a favorite of mine, maybe it’s the harsh ‘marge’ sound.

I feel the same way as you about [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] - it was also my grandma’s name. I would be happy to meet a [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] though!

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