Hello all, I need your help with some suggestions. My husband and I have been discussing names and he’s now mentioned that he’d like to name the baby something that is reflective of his heritage (I don’t identify much with my heritage and so I’m happy to look at names that he can find meaning in in that respect…he did mention if we could find something reflective of both that’d be even better though lol)
He is Guyanese ([name_f]Indian[/name_f]) and was raised Muslim, although he is no longer practicing, it still forms a large part of his heritage. So my first request is suggestions of names that would be considered Muslim/Arabic (and I know that not all Arabs are Muslims etc and one could argue that there aren’t even any “Muslim” names per se, but I don’t want to get into that conversation please! lol)
My family background is Dutch and Italian with a bit of English and [name_m]French[/name_m] thrown in for good measure apparently lol. I was raised Catholic, but am not practicing either and it really doesn’t hold a lot of significance for me. I am a spiritually seeking person yes, but not religious. Same as my husband.
I mentioned my children’s names in a another thread but hesitate to do so now because my other children are from a previous marriage…I had kids very young and though I love their names entirely, it just doesn’t matter to me if this baby goes with the “sibset”…this child is a new leaf being turned for every member of our family and so I prefer to find a name that is “the” name without worry for how it sounds with the others…bearing that in mind, and for background or possibly to spark some creative ideas, their names are [name_m]Theron[/name_m] [name_u]Loki[/name_u], [name_f]Phaedra[/name_f] [name_f]Lily[/name_f] and [name_m]Bastian[/name_m] [name_m]Levi[/name_m]. My name is [name_f]Tanya[/name_f] and my husband is [name_u]Sacha[/name_u] and our last name is a very common Muslim surname.
If the baby is a girl, we will definitely honour my husband’s grandmother by using her name as a middle name (spelling to be determined) which is Zeleka.
[name_f]One[/name_f] more bit of criteria…my husband has mentioned, and I agree, that we don’t want the baby’s first name to be “too” ethnic (ie. [name_m]Muhammad[/name_m])
So far we both like one name that fits some of our criteria: [name_f]Layla[/name_f]…but it might be too common for me. My husband came up with a good idea for a boy, [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m], who is an angel in both Islam and Christianity…however I’m not sold…and it’s my uncle’s name…hmm
Wow I have an issue with being short and concise don’t I! lol sorry for my long winded posts…I am really stumped this time around! I’ll stop talking now. lol