Name for me

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] all,

This is my first post on here so hi!! I come with a strange request for help. I’m a young adult who is in the process of coming out as nonbinary (bigender in particular), and, without getting too much into it, I get dysphoria regarding my name. I’m AFAB (assigned female at birth) and my given name is $ophia [most common middle name in the USA starting with M] (text changed in case my family googles me or something), which is super girly feminine. I go by S0phie about 70% of the time because that’s what I’ve always gone by, and it doesn’t bother me tooooo much, but I’d really like to try something more neutral for a time and see if it fits better. I want to keep the S0phia part of my name because it’s kinda neat and my parents put a lot of effort into it, but the middle name has got to go.
So what I need your help on is coming up with a gender-neutral / masculine name to go with S0phia, either as a FN or MN.

What I have so far:
[name_m]Kiran[/name_m] [name_f]Sophia[/name_f]
[name_m]Soren[/name_m] [name_f]Sophia[/name_f]

I know this is a little weird so thanks in advance for your help!!

  • nymphnode

Sorry about the double post, I don’t know what I’m doing yet. Please reply on the other thread