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I’m stuck on the girl names so I’m putting those aside for awhile. Boys names are much more fun and far easier for Hubby and me to agree on, too.
Here’s our list for firsts:
[name_m]Horatio[/name_m] - this has been on and off my favorites for years, I think I have finally worked up the nerve to go for it. I realized that nn Eto would work as a nn which makes me smile – this was a pet name they called my dad, [name_m]Ethan[/name_m], when he was a kid - prn EE-toe. Also love [name_u]Rory[/name_u] as a possible nn and Hubby likes this one best, so that nn would likely win out against Eto. But we might use the full name, too. We have no consistency in our sibling group – some kids have nns and some go by full names.
[name_u]Rory[/name_u] - Both parents like this one a lot. For some reason, I have a little bit of trouble wrapping my head around it as a standalone name, even though I know it IS a standalone name, and I always like it every time I “see” it on a grown man. So. It’s probably time for me to just get over that mental block. Yes, one of [name_m]Georg[/name_m]!a’s middles is [name_f]Rose[/name_f]; no, we don’t think this is too much [name_m]Doctor[/name_m] Who. We have a TARDIS in our dining room that we built, soooo yeah…
[name_m]Ragnar[/name_m] - Hubby has been campaigning for this one for… four years? Six years? A long time. He super likes it. I like it… but possibly more in theory than in practice. It’s… aggressive.
Middles:
[name_m]Ethan[/name_m] - family name, obviously. My grandparents were ahead of their times, what can I say? It’s still astonishing to me that this became a top 10 name, because NOBODY could even understand it back in the day when I said my parents’ names.
Eto - I think the nickname itself would be a cool middle, possibly in a two-middle combo. One nephew already has [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] as a middle and another sister declared that she will use it as a first. I don’t mind shared family names. But it might be nice to have a variation, too.
[name_m]Heath[/name_m] - I would consider this in a combo as the [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] honor (he was called “Eth” after he outgrew Eto, long E, sounds like [name_m]Heath[/name_m] without the H).
[name_u]Rigel[/name_u] - A number 7 and celestial name, super cool.
[name_m]Frederic[/name_m] - Anyone who knows us will get this. [name_u]Baby[/name_u] is due in [name_f]February[/name_f] and we’re [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] & [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u] nerds (Pirates of Penzance).
[name_m]Amadeus[/name_m] - Awesome cool meaning. Never have been able to get Hubby to OK this one as a first, but I might be able to sneak it into a combo.
[name_m]Ozias[/name_m] - Also awesome meaning name that I want to keep on the table for possible combos, won’t ever get approval as a first from DH.
A couple others I just like but don’t think are usable
[name_u]Jean[/name_u], [name_u]Jean[/name_u]-[name_m]Luc[/name_m] - I wish [name_m]French[/name_m] [name_u]Jean[/name_u] wouldn’t be slaughtered in my region. It’s really a pity, because I legitimately like both of these of their own merit, and Hubby would like [name_f]Star[/name_f] Trek and [name_u]Jean[/name_u] Valjean, though they are pretty tied to characters for first name consideration anyway. I did think of using it as a crossover honor for [name_f]MIL[/name_f], middle name [name_u]Jean[/name_u], but she would think that was idiotic and pretentious, so there’s no point.
[name_m]Basil[/name_m] - I super like this one and I would totally use it, if it weren’t for the stupid “Bedazzler” craze when I was a kid. [name_f]Every[/name_f] time I picture a smart and distinguished fellow… I realize he’s wearing a jean jacket plastered with sparkles. [name_m]Just[/name_m]…no.
[name_m]Alastair[/name_m] - So refined, so handsome, so hard to pull off the third-syllable emphasis. Out.
[name_u]Robin[/name_u] - This one would be fun as a second-middle “[name_u]Robin[/name_u] Hood” nod, but he doesn’t beat out the other middle options.
Ok – thoughts, comments, combos? I don’t think we’re shopping for new ideas. All three of the top considerations have been on and off the list for 4-14 years so it would be hard to overtake any of them. Our other three boys have family middles, or middles chosen for meaning.
Thanks, Berries!